85 Cunnilingus Techniques That Give Women Full-Body Orgasms

We asked 85 women to describe the single best oral sex experience they've ever had. What came back was hot, eye-opening and, at times… Genuinely jaw-dropping.

These real accounts of receiving oral sex will show you exactly how to give your girl the best head of her life, even if your technique is already solid.

Before diving in, note that the stories below pair well with our in-depth guide on how to eat pussy, which breaks down specific cunnilingus techniques step by step.

One more thing before we start. Women overwhelmingly enjoy receiving oral sex — in a survey of more than 1,000 women, over 90% said they love receiving oral sex. So if you were ever unsure whether cunnilingus is actually appreciated, now you know.

(Note: All names have been removed for privacy)

1. Slow, Even Strokes

The best experience was laying on my back, bottom propped on a pillow at the edge of the bed, wrists tied to my knees, man on his knees at the end of the bed. He took his hands and spread me apart and licked in slow, even strokes, taking his time, moving from the clitoris to my vaginal opening.

He moved from sucking on my clitoris to sliding his tongue in and out of my vaginal opening. He was slow, methodical, and intentional with everything he was doing.

2. The Vortex Technique

During sex with a former porn actor. He used a suction technique that made me have really big orgasms, and he did it repeatedly without resting between orgasms.

Note: This suction technique is called The Vortex.

3. Classic 69

It was during a 69 session, he used his hands to tease around while using his mouth in different ways. Started with long strokes on different areas and switched to circular motion, then flicking, then back to strokes. The changes were good. They were long enough to enjoy the motion but often enough to keep the tension building.

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4. Face-Sitting Finale

After riding him he asked me to sit on his face, his deep moaning (how to moan) and the way he grabbed my body and ass and sucked my clit, licking all over faster and slower I could feel how much it turned him on. I orgasmed and then orgasmed again straight away. It was the best I've ever had. I was really loud when I came and normally I don't make a noise

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5. His Tongue Never Stopped

He started passionately kissing me moving down and giving my nipples love. He kissed my body all the way down and then started with his tongue on my clit. He started slow and then got faster. He then reached a hand upwards and played with one of my nipples at the same time.

Everything just felt so good. I had an orgasm and he didn't stop licking, he just kept going. He then took his fingers and put them in my vagina. He fingered me and ate me till I orgasmed again and this time my legs were shaking.

6. A Preference For Light, All-Over Tonguing

Slow and gentle is key, not forceful. I like to feel every millimeter of surface area that his tongue touches and take it all in. I like light tonguing all around my vagina and clit, then inserting his tongue into my vagina and sucking out my pussy juices.

Then he spreads my juices all around and on my clit (so warm and wet!). He'll do that a couple of times and then proceed to suck my clit, gently and then a little harder and faster at my direction, as I focus with him to bring on an intense O.

BOTH of us are present and actively enjoying when I receive oral sex. My partner listens to my response (moaning or panting or talking is so important!) and direction. He makes changes subtly as we talk through all the feels and sensations, good or not as good, etc. We find that O together!!

I like to be on my back with my legs up and apart with knees bent back next to my breasts. I like to hold my knees but sometimes play with my breasts and nipples as well at the same time.

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7. Swirling Motions

I like when he taps his tongue on the top tip point of my clit and swirls his tongue not rough and not gentle and using one to two fingers inside of me using the come hither motion also alternating in and out motion as fast (but not as hard) as possible.

I melted and i was floating all at the same time….it started by literally us just touching each other because I could feel his energy with my spidey senses…his sex energy.

8. Her Only Orgasm From Oral

The one and only time I experienced an orgasm during oral sex, we started with deep sensual kissing, pressing our naked bodies together. I like feeling his body come alive again shortly after I have given him an enthusiastic blow job. His strong hands grab my body and pull me close to his, kissing deep wet passionate kisses.

He used his hands firmly in everything he did, pushing my legs apart to go deep with his face and tongue and using his fingers skillfully and in sync with my body responding. He was patient and committed to my oral pleasure, which resulted in multiple body-shaking orgasms__.

9. Building Toward It Gradually

So the work up to it is what makes it enjoyable to me, usually starting with making out, then he'll move to sucking my breasts, kissing my stomach, spreading my legs and kissing me all over before moving to the insides of my thighs.

It gets my pussy wet and all tingly with just that. Then he'll spread open the lips and slowly start licking it getting everything wet. He'll switch between kissing my thighs and licking my pussy, focusing his licking and sucking on my clit. He'll slowly start fingering my pussy and play with my breasts. He'll even have me taste myself 🤤

10. Combining Oral With Anal Play

He was sucking on my clit, stretching my ass with his fingers and pinching my nipples!

11. Comfort And Talking It Through Made All The Difference

He could tell I was really shy and awkward about it and took his time making me comfortable. He didn't try too hard or try to imitate cunnllingus like in porn and cared about my input.

12. The Wait Was Worth It

One time he kissed me between my legs and sucked and kissed my vagina lips while I was dying for him to put his tongue on my clit. When he did the Pancake cunnilingis tip__, I came right away.

13. Compliments Made It Even Better

Him telling about how sweet my pussy tastes when giving head.

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14. Full, Undivided Attention

Good oral sex tarts with passionate kissing: 30 minutes or more. Clothes start coming off. Tit attention. Finger fucking__. Working his way down body with his mouth. My partner totally focuses on me and pays attention to my responses. It all feels like paradise. He shows how much he loves and adores me through the way he loves on my body and cares about my pleasure. He loves all of me.

15. A Surprise Right After The Shower

I got out of the shower and came to my bedroom with just a towel on to get dressed, but my man surprised me and pushed me down on the bed and took my towel off and dove face first into my still wet pussy. He licked and sucked and fingered my pussy and asshole while he sucked my clit and my asshole. My body felt like it had an internal fire of passion brewing deep inside me.

This passion started swirling around and around in my body until I had the best orgasm that I've ever had.

It turned into 17 orgasms, because he didn't stop sucking my clit and I kept having them over and over.

Now, that's how to give a woman head!

16. A Stranger On A Train

I started flirting with a cute Swedish guy on a train in Sweden and we had a compartment to ourselves when it got dark. We were somewhere in Germany when we started making out.

When we got really turned on, I asked if he had a condom and he didn't, but he just smiled and licked my pants. I let him pull them down and he just went for it, diving into my pussy head first.

He told me I tasted and smelled really good, and I gave him a hand job while he licked and fingered me. He kept slowing down and kissing my vagina and inner thighs, giving me tingles all over. Then he would start back up again, licking like a mad man. When I was soaking wet from all the licking, he put two fingers in me and fucked me with them while he kept licking.

He gave me three orgasms like that and it was the first time I squirted on someone's face. What made it special was he was really hot and very enthusiastic about licking my pussy. The setting also made it exciting. In the morning he got off the train at his stop and I'm sure he is making girls very happy somewhere.

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17. Reunited With An Old Flame

It was with an old flame & we reunited after being long distanced. We hadn't had contact for 44 years. We had texted & lots of phone convos before I moved close to him, back to hometown. We had lots of time to converse about what we each liked.

It was magical when we finally got together. We began making out & it was exciting for us both. We moved into the bedroom & and began removing each other's clothing while kissing. He said he wanted to taste me so badly as he sucked on my boobies and then asked if I wanted him to go down on me because he doesn't think he can wait any longer.

He was fully erect at this point & seeing his 8-inch cock had me on fire for him. I told him he had me so hungry for anything he wanted to do with me. He reached down and felt my wetness & said to lay down, that he was coming for me. I did and his mouth and tongue was all over me, then zeroed in on my clit..

He kept up the same pace once he heard me say,.”Yes, baby. Right there. Just like that”. He had me feeling like I had waited for this moment all my life. When we first had sex as teens, he was a virgin and wasn't nearly as skilled as now in our early 60's. We had gotten over our youthful shyness & it was splendid. I loved how much he made me feel beautiful still & how much he wanted to ravish me. And he did!

18. Restrained And Ravenous

My hands were tied behind my back__, and I was forced over the back of a couch. I fucked his face after he ate me like he'd not had a meal in days. He moaned and groaned, nearly as much as I did and made me feel as if he enjoyed every minute of making me cum.

19. Pairing A Toy With Oral

He used a large dildo in my vagina at the same time he sucked and licked my clit. I could feel it building and getting better and better as it progressed and I finally came.

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20. The Long-Awaited First

The best oral sex that I ever had was about six weeks after I had my first child. (you have to wait about 6 weeks so we were ready!!) I didn't expect it.

I woke up to him kissing my thighs and moving up from there and I had my VERY FIRST orgasm from oral. I had no idea that I hadn't orgasmed before that, but when it happened, I definitely knew that was on a whole different level!

21. It Has To Be Selfless

The guy has to know what he is doing and want to satisfy me. It needs to be about me getting off rather than him getting me wet so he can have sex. If a guy just does it and doesn't enjoy it, no thanks.

22. When He Truly Craves You

I remember he pulled off my panties and had me lie back. He said he just wanted to please me orally that day and not to worry about him. He started gently licking my clit and I felt his enthusiasm as his licking and kisses got more intense and he groaned with pleasure, I think definitely because of my bodily response and my moans as well. He then moved his tongue lower down and slid it in my vagina.

An, oh my gosh. Oh gosh, I felt the love, the raw want and desire. He moaned and said, “Give it all to me baby. I want it all,” and I couldn't even look at him anymore, I just felt myself getting so excited because of how he was excited. All my fears of how I may have tasted or smelled to him disappeared because of how he seemed he couldn't get enough of me. He literally ravaged me and I knew he LOVED it.

He went back up and kissed and lightly sucked the clit, pressed gently and flicked with his tongue, then back down to the vagina, and tongue fucked it again, and circling his tongue, flicking, pressing into my pussy, in and out, like he was having a time!!

And his pleasure sounds amazing. I never experienced that level of enjoyment of this most intimate act from any guy in my life so far.

He was neither rough nor too gentle. He gave absolutely perfect pressure with his beautiful, warm and inviting mouth. Then, he stopped at the right time. I don't know how he knew it was the right time to stop, but he used two of his fingers to get to my G spot and I eventually exploded onto them.

It was the first time I squirted__. It was pure ecstasy. He withdrew his fingers and sucked the juices from them while looking deep in my eyes and told me he loved me, all of me.

I nearly fainted right there. I remember how he kept whispering that my pussy was so beautiful and I was so beautiful while he was giving oral sex. I felt totally lost in his words and actions.

After it was over, I kissed him thoroughly on his mouth using my tongue (at first really just to check how I tasted) and it was so beautiful. I was relieved, and I nearly cried.

That was the first time he performed oral sex on me and every time he has done so after that, he has the same high level of enthusiasm or more! I found a man who really enjoys my smell and taste and I enjoy his, too.

That's what makes his oral sex to me so fantastic: his amazing level of enthusiasm for it. We could be talking about something random and he'll suddenly say how I taste and smell so damn good and he can't wait to give oral to me again.

I am so thankful to have found such a guy who shows love to me in that and so many other ways. He is truly a beautiful and loving soul. Easily the best lover I ever had in my life so far.

23. No Settling For Average In Midlife

I was relaxed! There was nothing to worry about and he was super enthusiastic and attentive. He loves giving me oral sex and we have a ton of fun. It's always a great night and adventurous, not always just about one of us coming. He talks to me and makes a lot of eye contact.

Best sex of my life for the first time at 44!

24. Fingers And Tongue Working Together

It starts with passionate kissing and groping. Then, he lays me down on the bed and kisses me on my lips before moving to my neck and down to my breasts where he licks and kisses my nipples with light biting__.

He opens my legs and moves down to my pussy where he spreads open my lips and gently flicks my clit with his tongue. He slowly increases pressure and speed. Then places his mouth on my clit and gently sucks with intervals of licking. He slides his fingers in my wet pussy while continuing to lick and suck my clit and stimulates my G spot.

25. An Eager Learner

My current partner was practically begging to eat me out around the beginning of our relationship, so I agreed and let him show me what he could do. He ended up sucking my clit, but only briefly as he went to my vagina to actually eat me out.

I guided him through how to go down on a woman, told him to focus on my clit with his mouth and try being consistent with his movements. Once he got the hang of it, he used his fingers inside of me with the “come hither” motion. He seriously rocked my world after that.

He hasn't needed much coaching in that department since.

26. Hearing How Much He Enjoyed It

The first time I had oral sex with my partner, he made me feel so comfortable. It was a huge game-changer for me. His tongue and mouth just made me feel things all over my body.

I didn't have an orgasm from oral that time because I was still overthinking things, but it felt amazing. Afterward, he talked, about how much he loved doing it and how much it turned him on – it was so good to hear that

27. Held Tight The Whole Time

He clutched my thighs and made it seem like my vagina was everything he needed and wouldn't let go even if I orgasmed.

28. Unplanned And Vocal

When my partner is really enjoying it themselves and is verbal. I also like spontaneity.

29. That New-Relationship Spark

It was the very first time my (now) husband went down on me. His face had stubble, the attraction was new, and it was very exciting. He started by kissing my body all over, went over my nipples a few times and slowly worked his way down to my vagina.

Once he was there, he didn't just go for it, he worked me up to it. He took his tongue around the outside of my vagina, then on the inner lips, and then he very lightly and briefly brushed his tongue against my clitoris. After doing that a few times, he went full force into it.

30. Winning A Bet

We were playing cards and it started with a bet__: He bet me that he could make me orgasm at least 5 times in one hour. He pulled me to the edge of that chair and went at it. We tried several different positions and I climaxed more times than I can remember. I'll have to make that bet again.

31. The Thrill Of Possibly Being Seen

My best ever was oral sex outside on a picnic table that had half of it blocked by a wall. She took off my pants and lay me down and made sure I was comfortable. It was risky and I liked that because if anyone walked over they would see.

They went back and forth between long strokes with their tongue wide and a good amount of pressure and short strokes just on the clit with a little less pressure

32. Alternating With Light Slaps

They began slowly licking my clit, sending tingles throughout my body, then slipped their fingers inside me and they sucked my clit.

Then they stopped altogether and made me sit there, begging for more, then started slapping my clit over & over again, then just when I was about to cum, they stopped and finished me off by flicking my clit and fingering me again.

33. Locked-In Eye Contact

It was the first time in a new relationship, he gently laid me back and began sweetly keeping eyes locked on one another through it. When I orgasmed it was awesome and twice as strong!!

34. Fully Letting Go

I can't describe it, but I have to just give myself fully to my partner and be mindfully relaxed so I can enjoy myself and not be thinking or concentrating on what's going on.

35. Reading Her Body's Signals

He seemed to be hungry for it, very enthusiastic. He would periodically make eye contact. He used my cues to see what worked and what didn't.

36. Letting The Moment Take Over

It was the whole situation. It was the spur of the moment: we were out at a restaurant and were in the mood. The attraction was strong! The fact that we ran to the car in the parking lot and hiding. It felt phenomenal to just let go and go with the flow and _do it in his car__.

37. Emotional Connection Matters Just As Much As Technique

Every time with my current partner is the best, especially when we take time and he goes slowly with my panties on first. He's the most enthusiastic, and I've never been as emotionally connected to a man.

38. Devoured, In The Best Way

I was laid out on the kitchen bench, and he ate me like a cannibal. It was fucking awesome

39. Back To Back With A Prior Orgasm

I had just finished an orgasm from riding him. He then tells me to lie down so he can eat my pussy__, then goes to work. The feeling was great because it was an orgasm from two different sources back to back.

40. The Real Secret Is Just Comfort

The main thing that my partner did to make it so enjoyable was pay attention to my body language and follow those cues. The best head is when I can just lay back, relax, and fully let go and enjoy it without having to give direction and without any incident of something accidentally being painful__/uncomfortable.

41. A Firm, Steady Grip Required

He coaxed me up onto his face and he stroked my pussy with his tongue and flicked my clothes with his tongue. He fingered me and sucked everything. When I orgasmed, it was from my clit and my G spot__. He had to grab my hips to keep me steady. Best oral sex ever.

42. Nobody Was In A Hurry

My partner was very concerned that I enjoyed the experience and was not in a rush and played with my vagina and ass. The teasing drove me out of my mind.

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43. Giving Back The Favor

He was enthusiastic and into it. He makes noises and is confident with what he is doing. He pays attention to my cues and if I'm moaning, he keeps doing more of whatever that is.

When he puts his fingers inside me and finger fucks me really hard and fast it feels so good. I feel this pressure inside me like I'm going to pee but actually it's the precursor to me squirting all over him.

It helps that he loves making me cum__. What he does that makes it so enjoyable is that he is enthusiastic and confident as fuck. He knows what he's doing and is keen to bring me pleasure, which makes me want to return the favor and give head that's just as good, too!

44. Built-Up Sexual Tension Was The Real Trigger

I don't know if it was the sexual tension between us at the time. We were sitting having a discussion on his porch and after that we were kissing. This led to touching and fingering and then he was kneeling in front of where I was sitting, pushing my panties to the side and performing oral sex.

There was nothing special about his cunnilingus technique nor were there any special moves. It was just a simple oral with some fingering but it was the most memorable oral experience I've ever had.

45. Teasing Breath And Gentle Bites

He kissed and licked the area around my vagina and he blew some air on my clit and teased me with little bites and at the point that I couldn't handle it anymore, he went all in for a few seconds.

46. Anticipation Was The Best Part

It started with me thinking about it all day. There was lots of anticipation and flirting. It felt amazing. When we got together, he started slowly licking and sucking, then got harder and I pushed his head down.

47. Feeling Truly Wanted

When he wants to do it and practically makes me let him perform cunnilingus on me. Makes it that much hotter, desirable. Boosts your confidence.

48. Attention Front And Back

We were kissing. I was on my back with my knees up. He started with other foreplay like playing with my breasts and kissed down my body before getting to my vagina. I got to play with his hair and grip his forearms. He started with licking the general area with his tongue flat and then slowly and more quickly worked my clitoris.

Between breaks, he used his thumb to gently massage it. He'd switch to anilingus while taking breaks. I got to see him, we'd make eye contact, he could pin me from my waist. It was hot.

49. Double Stimulation With Her Nipples

He is such a tease and does these little circles on my clit while his hands do the same on my erect nipples. I come in seconds whenever he does that for me. Sensational!

50. A Preference For Rougher Play

He took charge. He was not gentle and was so into it that I couldn't help but be mesmerized by the whole experience.

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51. Pinned In Place

There was a lot of enthusiastic sexting about how bad he wanted to eat me out beforehand and he took charge when he got here by pulling me down on his face. He used his tongue, his teeth and his fingers. He also kinda held my hips down so I couldn't squirm away. It was amazing.

52. Assertive From The Start

It started very aggressively. I got my legs on his shoulders and he ate my pussy while looking at me.

53. A Power-Dynamic Fantasy

I was a mature student and he was a professor around my age.

The tension between us was quite high, and when the semester was over, we made our intentions clear and how much we enjoyed each other's company and how aroused we both were.

He was leaving the university so I wouldn't see him after that.

He kissed me and basically took control over the passionate moment. He carried me to the table in the middle of his office, fondled me, kissed me, listened to my cues, then asked if he could go down on me. I've always had a professor/power authority kink and so it immediately turned me on.

He performed oral sex and just went all in. His enthusiasm was infectious, and he clearly loved performing oral sex. He used his fingers and shoved them inside my vagina while he licked and sucked my clit all the while moaning (which added extra vibration).

His hands would rub my clit with pressure when he pulled away to kiss me and focus on my tits before going back to performing. He also teased me by giving head, then taking breaks (rubbing my clit with pressure while sucking on my tits and kissing me).

He had a rhythm, but it wasn't mechanical and the orchestra of movements made it the best oral sex I've ever received.

The whole scenario was hot as well since I've always wanted to have sex in his office. Sometimes, men just focus on performing oral sex that it ends up becoming a very focused exercise and the rest of me feels a bit neglected.

He was playing with me – his prey – and it was insanely hot which made it much more pleasurable when he finally focused on trying to get me to orgasm via oral.

54. Begging Him To Stop

My partner picked me up in the kitchen, put me on the island and performed oral sex for about 45 mins until I begged him to stop

55. A Deeply Romantic Night

The things that made it memorable: a romantic evening, deep emotional connection, he made the evening about me, and I had multiple oral orgasms followed by incredible intercourse__.

56. Feeling Cherished, Not Just Pleasured

Start with sensual massage and work into the thighs and vulva. Finger to at least a few great orgasms gets the blood flowing and pussy wet__. Combine fingers with sucking and rubbing with or without finger movement.

I love the way he makes me so relaxed and 100% accepted. I feel trusted and cared for like I am something special and cherished. It's like he feels it is a privilege to pleasure and serve me.

57. Started In The Shower, Finished In Bed

It started out in the shower. His kiss always makes me melt. Then, we were on the bed. I was riding his face, and he started eating my ass__. I swear he had me climbing the walls. I've never experienced anything like it.

He is everything I want and never knew I needed. Wasn't long and he had made me a squirter!

58. Consensual Nonconsent

I sat on his face after forcing myself on him. (Partner of 10 years)

59. Loving The Feeling Of Control

When he lies on his back and says, “Sit on my face,” it starts. It always feels good because I'm in control.

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60. Never Losing Momentum

He started at my neck and worked his way down. When I would cum, he would slow down so that I could “recover” and start again

61. When He Can't Get Enough Of Your Taste

We had just started dating, and it was our first sexual experience together. He begged me to let him do it and acted like this was the best part of sex for him and he loved the way I tasted.

After fingering me, he looked me dead in the eyes and put the finger he used in his mouth and made it seem like it was the best thing he ever tasted. Insanely hot.

62. Feeling Safe Enough To Let Go

He started talking about what he had in mind and let me know that I could tell him if I feel uncomfortable. It felt strange at first, but then I let go and let him have his way. He was careful and started slowly before getting more _intense__.

He went through with it until I had a very intense orgasm. He let me know how much he loved pleasuring me and how beautiful I am to him.

63. Trust Made It Unforgettable

It was the whole build up from the words being said to me during dinner to the setting to the foreplay (beginning with foot massage). By the time the oral sex happened, I had the most profound shuddering experience I ever had because of the level of trust there before anything else.

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64. Like Water In The Desert

Everything about the experience was slow, exciting, and anticipated for a long time. We were new partners with a strong sexual connection.

We kissed and touched each other for 5 minutes and then he pushed me gently on the bed, undressed me and took me in his mouth like I was a drink of water in the desert.

The rhythm was slow and amazingly in time with the waves of my pleasure. It was like we were connected and it was really intense. He used his fingers on my G Spot, and drove me wild.

65. Restrained And Able To Finally Relax

He restrained me to the bed so I couldn't do anything but lay back and enjoy him giving head. It felt amazing. I was able to relax and squirt four times.

66. Teased Right To The Brink

For me it's all about the build up, the sexual tension and sexual teasing that leads up to oral always makes it so much better. My partner likes to bring me close to orgasm and then stop cunnilingus, it teases me so much and has me begging for more.

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67. Completely In His Control

There was passion, enthusiasm. He started slow and kept a rhythm throughout while slightly changing tactics from licking to sucking.

He also used his fingers. He moaned almost as much as me. I felt totally under his control and trusted him completely.

68. Overwhelmed By How Loved I Felt

There was so much foreplay to begin with – lots of cuddles and massages__, candles, music, a beautiful room and relaxation. He is strong both physically and mentally. He holds me down – and I try to move but can't. He also talks to me all sexy and dirty like.

This particular time, he spent a lot of time giving me oral sex. I had an orgasm and it was so beautiful, I cried and cried because I felt so loved. He has strong eye contact as well.

69. Finding A Shared Rhythm

A slow sensual build up with lots of kissing and touching particularly to the stomach, thighs and bum. Lots of eye contact. My partner often just cups my vagina whilst we are kissing, which really gets me in the mood and helps me feel connected and safe.

When he starts licking me, he always says something that makes me feel confident such as ‘you taste so good' or ‘your pussy is so beautiful.' Feeling confident in my body definitely helps me relax and enjoy it more.

When it comes to technique, there's nothing specific but a good rhythm, keeping it sloppy, using light fingering to both vagina and anus and general enthusiasm makes it all the more enjoyable. He doesn't stop until I've come at least once, preferably several times. I appreciate not being rushed.

70. Woken Up By It

I was sleeping and I felt a nice sensation that woke me up slowly. My lover had started to go down on me while I was sleeping and it was slow and gentle but ohh so good.

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71. Fully In Charge

I started it by tying him up and giving him a sexy strip-tease, then I sat down and had him kneel and perform oral sex on me. Occasionally, I would grab him by the hair and direct his mouth and sometimes I would press him to me so hard I would briefly cut off his air, making him gasp when I let him go. I felt powerful, that's what made it feel so good.

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72. Slow-Cooked Pleasure

Start out slowly with kissing to get into the mood. You have to preheat the oven before you bake a cake.

Then he put me in our sex swing and got down on his knees. It was wild.

73. Staying Quiet Was The Challenge

It was secretly in bed next to other people (I hope they really were asleep) so we both had to be very quiet. He kissed me and carrressed me and kissed down from my mouth and neck to my belly and my thighs.

Then he softly kissed my vagina through my nightwear before turning it off quietly. He then let me feel his lips and his tongue very gently on my lips and softly stimulated my clit while I could feel one of his fingers surrounding my vagina. I had to fight not to moan the whole time and especially not to scream as I was cumming.

74. Toys Added To The Mix

She laid me on my back, kissed me and sucked on my nipples to start while her hands began sliding between my legs and parting them.

As I spread wide open, she slid down and inserted her fingers into my vagina while licking and sucking my clit. She also used a Hitachi Wand on me and pressed it to my clit while inserting her tongue into my vagina.

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75. Upgrading The 69

My best experience was in the 69 position while also using a vibrator inside my vagina during the oral sex as well. The mixture of the vibrator and the on-and-off oral stimulation made it amazing.

76. Bare Skin Outdoors

Location plays a big part. We had a picnic in the forest and he kissed me everywhere before giving oral sex in the woods until I came many times. Then, he plunged his cock into me and kept going back to oral from intercourse for hours!

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77. A Better Start Than Breakfast

He ate me out right after waking up, and took me by surprise. We were in a bit of a rush, so the thrill of time ticking and potentially being late was exhilarating.

78. Constantly Switching Things Up

He started out with slow long licks and worked up to fast short ones. Then he nibbled on my clit and focused on it.

He repeated this, and each time the process went faster. He would also change it up by fingering me. I felt like I was constantly coming and squirting. I orgasm the best when my clit is getting attention

79. She Was The Only One Undressed

I came home from shopping to find my man waiting for me. I had worn a sexy short dress without panties (I was feeling naughty that day). He kissed me, and I got wet almost immediately.

Then, he carried me to the bed and laid me on my back towards the edge of the bed. He began kissing my thighs and moving up to my coochie, then he fingered me and buried his face between my thighs. It felt so good I lost count of time.

The next thing I saw was his face dripping my cum down to his shirt. He was fully clothed (it's my fetish to make out with my man fully clothed). It was my first time to squirt when receiving oral sex.

80. A Partner Who Actually Studies Technique

Being tied up, then spanked__. Being propped up, face down ass up, and not being able to move while my partner selfishly enjoys giving oral sex When he enjoys it, I enjoy it.

My partner starts with a strawberry warming lubricant to get everything plumped up, so it tastes great to him. (He loves the taste of my pussy without lube, but it helps his face glide along my body without pulling the skin)

He takes ample time licking my lips, licking up to my clit and sucking on it. My partner has done much research on how to make any sexual encounter mind-blowing. He knows that the clit isn't just one point, that the sensitivity runs along the side of the lips of your pussy, too. He also knows how and where to find the G Spot and A Spot__. He knows when you're about to cum, and knows to make it more intense by sucking/rubbing/licking harder or faster or whether to stay at the same rate or to slow things down.

He knows how to make a girl orgasm in so many different ways. MEN: DO YOUR RESEARCH!

81. Every Sense Turned Up

We started off with sensual play, (we are a Dom/sub couple__) that included me being blindfolded, the use of ice, and feathers and fur gliding all over my skin. He put headphones in my ears so I couldn't hear where he was. When his face went between my thighs, I was so worked up all my senses were on! I never came so hard before in my life.

82. Her First Time Ever

Probably my first one ever when I was 18. He was older and knew what he was doing. I was naive and had never heard of cunnilingus so I had no idea what was about to happen. He took off my underwear, spread my lips with his fingers told me to relax and enjoy it, and licked me. It took me less than 5 minutes to come!

Later that night, he edged me for about 30 minutes. It was the best introduction to oral, I have him to thank for setting the benchmark for me for life.

83. Stopped And Restarted Repeatedly

He kept stopping right before orgasm and would then restart eventually causing me to have a very strong orgasm.

84. When A Little Nervousness Is Flattering

I remember when my guy and I were first together. I felt like he really wanted me, that he found me very attractive and he had a slight apprehension whether he could please me orally.

In that comfort zone of his sincerity, I could guide him, just a very little–here and there–and it took me 2 minutes to orgasm the first time.

85. Her Very First Time

My first time was great, not the best but it still means a lot to me. We were in my bed and my man caressed and kissed me so gently and took off my clothes slowly.

I was already wet, but he put a lot of flavored lube in my cunt and after making all my body feel good (neck and boobs specifically), he went down and started cunnilingus. It was so great I almost melted.

It was his first time, too, so he was kinda shy. We had read about the G Spot and how to find it__. He nailed it good after some tries and made me tremble. I begged him not to drink it while I orgasmed, but he licked all of my juices while remarking how good it tasted. I was blushing but completely flattered.

After licking me around and sucking my clit, he approached my face and asked me how I felt, told me how much he loves me, and then we hugged and shared a slow passionate french kiss__.

I'll never forget that experience since it was the first time my sensations of pleasure were new and feeling that sexy tickling in my cunt was one the best things I've ever felt. Also the young love, romance and passion of it will always stay in my memory.

What Women Consistently Say They Want When You Go Down On Them

A handful of themes kept coming up again and again across these survey responses. Most of them have less to do with any single technique and more to do with your overall attitude and approach.

Comfort – Women repeatedly say oral sex feels best when their partner helps them feel physically and mentally at ease. It's a detail guys tend to underrate.

Enthusiasm – Genuine enthusiasm tells your partner she's truly desired, and it's one of the fastest ways to help her relax into the experience and reach orgasm more easily. Show it by initiating (or eagerly asking), moaning as you go, telling her how much you love the way her body looks, smells, or tastes, or simply letting her see how turned on cunnilingus makes you.

Communication – This came up constantly in the survey. Women value partners who take direction without getting defensive or making a production out of it. Think about it this way: if she feels comfortable enough to tell you how to make things even better, that's a sign she trusts and respects you.

Whether it happens verbally or through body language, communicating is essential for learning what your specific partner enjoys, since that can vary wildly between women. Every woman is different, and being a great lover means taking the time to learn exactly what makes yours melt when you go down on her — which means dropping the techniques she doesn't respond to and doubling down on what she does.

Bring Your Fingers Into It – On the technique side, women consistently mention appreciating partners who combine fingers with their tongue. It lets you stimulate the clitoris and vagina simultaneously, adds more intense sensation, and gives your tongue the occasional break.

Foreplay – The importance of building up to it can't be overstated. Plenty of people already consider oral sex itself a form of foreplay, but there's still plenty of room to build toward it. Mental foreplay like sexting, paired with physical foreplay, will leave your partner buzzing with anticipation, so that first touch of your tongue lands like a spark.

Here are a few things worth trying before you actually get started with oral sex.

• Kiss down her body
• Kiss or nibble her inner thighs
• Breathe warmly against her skin
• Kiss her vulva

Some of what makes oral sex unforgettable is genuinely hard to manufacture on demand — certain moments are just inherently sexy. A woman's first time receiving oral in a brand-new relationship, for instance, tends to be electric. There's only one true "first time," but there are plenty of ways to keep recreating that same excitement.

And if you're after the exact techniques used to perform oral sex on your partner — like the Vortex and the Pancake — you'll find them laid out in our guide on how to eat pussy.

April 18, 2022