How To Give Your Man A Sexy Striptease: 8 Easy Steps

A striptease for your partner is one of many great ways to spice up your sex life. Without the right prep, though, it can feel clumsy and nerve-wracking instead of sexy. Follow this tutorial and you'll be striptease-ready in no time.

Getting Ready To Strip

Preparation is everything here, it's what makes the whole thing flow naturally instead of turning into an awkward fumble with music and furniture. The Location – If your bedroom's roomy enough, it's the natural choice since it's already tied to sex in his mind. No space? Your living room works fine too.

What To Wear – Next, plan an outfit that helps you look hot. Go with stockings, a bra, and panties you know will drive him wild underneath, and pair them with a skirt that slides off easily. On top, something like a blazer works great since it comes off with minimal effort.

Learn: How to choose really sexy lingerie.

The rule of thumb: your underwear can be as tight and sexy as you like, but your outer layers need to be loose and simple to remove.

Footwear is entirely your call. Heels tend to flatter your legs best, but if they're not your thing, going barefoot works just as well.

Also: How to dress sexy

Setting The Mood – Lighting matters a lot here. Skip anything bright, go for soft, dim lighting instead. A dimmer switch is ideal, otherwise, candles are a great substitute.

You can also drape a sheet over a lamp for a similar effect (just watch out for fire hazards).

Incense or scented candles add a nice sensory layer too.

Related: How to make your vagina taste and smell good for your man.

Last piece of setting the mood: music. Figure out what genuinely gets him going, could be Top 40, could be heavy metal, whatever it is, track it down.

These 22 lap dance songs offer some inspiration.

We've also built a sex songs playlist with 400+ tracks.

First Time Nerves? – If this is your first striptease, some nerves are totally normal. A glass of wine beforehand can smooth things out. Stick to just one, though, more than that and you'll be too tipsy to strip smoothly.

Last essential: a chair for him to sit in. With everything set, let's get into the actual technique.

The Striptease Itself

1. Take his wrist and lead him to the chair from wherever you both are. Once there, push him down firmly so he immediately knows you're calling the shots.

This calls for a bit of dominant energy. We've got a full guide on being sexually dominant.

2. Give him a quick kiss so he knows you're still playful, even while firmly in control.

3. Step back a few paces, seductively, letting your hips lead. Pause, glance back over your shoulder, then let your jacket slide to the floor.

Related: How to be seductive.

4. Step back toward him. Hands on your hips, slowly ease your skirt down, bending forward as you go to give him a full view from behind.

Slower is always better here.

5. Feeling bold? Hands on hips, slowly rotate them right in front of him. If he reaches for you, playfully swat his hands away with a wag of your finger. Works facing him or with your back turned.

6. Another sexy move: straddle one of his legs, sit down, and grind seductively against it.

Related: 11 confidence-building seduction techniques

7. Walk away slowly again, stop a few feet off, and unclasp your bra with your back to him, sliding the straps down first before undoing the clasp. Toss it toward him, then turn and walk slowly back.

8. Settle onto his knee and keep grinding, letting things unfold from there, whether that means staying right there until you bring yourself to orgasm or moving elsewhere.

It's worth practicing solo first to figure out what flows easily and what needs more polish. Your first attempts might feel a little clumsy, that's completely normal. With practice, it'll get smoother and sexier every time.

Taking It Further

Once the striptease itself feels natural, move into some sexy foreplay or pull from these powerful sex tips.

Enjoy.

February 8, 2022