137 Women Describe What An Anal Orgasm Feels Like & How To Have One

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Anal orgasms can be some of the most intense you'll ever experience, and this guide walks through exactly how to have one, pain-free. To round out this anal orgasm guide, I also reached out to hundreds of men and women to find out what an anal orgasm actually feels like.

Their answers were incredibly helpful, fascinating, and downright scandalous — full of descriptions and advice on having an anal orgasm, which I cover further down (skip directly to their anal orgasm descriptions & advice).

What An Anal Orgasm Is & Whether It's Realistic

I surveyed 2,110 women across every orientation on whether they'd ever had an anal orgasm. 28.4% said they'd had at least one, which confirms they're absolutely possible — though most women haven't experienced one yet.

To be precise, we're defining an anal orgasm as one triggered by anal stimulation, which can cover a range of activities we'll break down below. What causes an anal orgasm tends to differ between men and women (as described below), and choosing the right anal sex position can matter a lot for getting the stimulation needed to climax anally.

Can Men Orgasm From Anal Sex?

Absolutely! And we're not only talking about when he's the one giving. Men have a walnut-shaped gland called the prostate (sometimes called the anal or male G spot) that's reachable through the anus. Stimulate it correctly and it can trigger an intensely powerful, full-body orgasm. Getting familiar with the prostate is essential if you want to give him an anal orgasm. You can see where it sits in the cross-section below:

And no, none of this makes it gay.

Enjoying anal pleasure is a completely natural thing for men. So why not give your guy an anal orgasm?

For some men, ejaculation happens with every orgasm, though the volume tends to shrink over time — which many people mistake for a "dry" or non-ejaculatory orgasm [2]. On top of that, prostate orgasms may be one path for men to experience multiple orgasms [3 p 37].

Worth noting: men who've had a prostatectomy may lose the ability to have anal orgasms, since the surgery can damage the relevant nerves [4]. So if you're struggling to figure out how to give a guy an anal orgasm, it's worth checking whether he's had this procedure.

Can Women Orgasm From Anal Sex?

Some women also report full-body, intensely powerful orgasms from anal stimulation — though without a prostate, the mechanism behind it is different.

You might be wondering whether anal orgasms for women are actually real. The only way to know for sure is to try reaching one yourself.

There's no single formula for having an anal orgasm. What that does mean, though, is you're free to experiment with all kinds of anal stimulation, both as the receiver and while pleasuring your man. Now let's dig into the best ways to reach an anal orgasm, using these tried-and-tested tips (also check out our guide on how to have anal sex).

Ways To Reach An Anal Orgasm

Fingering

Fingering isn't only great vaginally. Anal fingering is a fantastic, low-pressure way to test the waters of penetration, and even sticking to just a finger can still deliver real anal pleasure.

Trim your fingernails short and file down any sharp edges that could cause pain (these tips also help prevent anal from hurting). Slipping a finger into a condom or medical glove boosts comfort during anal fingering too. Pro tip: tuck a cotton ball into the glove's tip if your nails are on the longer side.

Start by stimulating in and around the entrance without penetrating at all — a great option if either of you feels a bit hesitant about the idea.

When you're ready for penetration, apply lube generously to both your finger and your partner's anus. Ease a single finger in slowly first, giving your partner time to adjust. Experiment with gentle thrusting and rotating your hand, and use your thumb externally too.

If your partner's comfortable, add a second finger — or more!

Salad Tossing

Salad tossing is the playful term for licking your partner's anus, more formally known as giving a rim job. We've put together a detailed guide on preparing for salad tossing from both sides. A dental dam — a small latex square similar to a condom — offers protection from bacteria transmission and other risks, letting you stimulate one of your partner's most sensitive erogenous zones with confidence.

You can prepare for a rim job by showering and using a wet wipe beforehand. For added reassurance, a warm-water douche leaves you feeling squeaky clean, and an enema offers an even more thorough clean if that's your preference. This lets you fully enjoy anal orgasms without worrying about fecal matter or odor.

Start with licking, kissing, and gently biting your partner's cheeks, then move to licking the anus or penetrating lightly with your tongue. Try alternating between a flat, wide tongue and a narrow, pointed one to find what your partner responds to. You'll find more tips in our ass eating guide.

Butt Plugs

There's no shortage of anal toys out there, and butt plugs remain among the most popular. Their shape resembles the spade symbol on a playing card — a tapered tip for insertion, widening to a bulge, narrowing to a thin neck, then finishing in a flared base that keeps it safely in place. Some come angled for prostate stimulation, feature multiple bulges or added texture, or even vibrate.

Butt plugs are meant to stay inserted, delivering a steady, full sensation. Wear one during vaginal sex, solo masturbation, or even while going about your day! Click here for more ideas on using butt plugs.

Anal Beads

Another go-to anal toy is a chain of bulges called anal beads. They may all be the same size, or graduate larger to add stimulation as you insert and withdraw them. Lube them well before use, and keep these tips in mind when choosing anal beads:

Anal beads should be made from a body-safe, easy-to-clean material like silicone.
The connecting piece should also be silicone — beads molded from one continuous piece are safer than ones strung together, since strings can snap.
Look for a handle or loop at the end for safe removal.

Check out more info on anal sex safety.

Dildos

Plenty of other toys can help you reach an anal orgasm too. Just steer clear of anything without a flared base or safe shape (a C-shape, for instance) — anything that could potentially get lost inside the body. Nobody wants a trip to the ER!

If you use a toy both anally and vaginally, never move directly from one to the other. Use removable condoms on the toy, or choose materials you can safely disinfect between uses. Skip that step and you risk transferring bacteria and triggering an unpleasant vaginal infection. It's generally best to avoid household items as makeshift anal dildos.

Materials that can be properly sterilized include silicone, glass, stainless steel, treated wood, plastic, and ceramic. Boiling a motor-free toy for three minutes clears away any bacteria you can't see, and many can also go in the top rack of a dishwasher. Vibrators should be wiped down with a 10% bleach solution after anal use.

Prostate Toys

One category of anal toys is built specifically for prostate stimulation. Some are C-shaped, similar to G-spot toys; others resemble dildos with flared bases and curved tips. A popular prostate-milking design has three parts: one inserted, one acting as a handle, and a third resting against the perineum outside the body for added stimulation. Many vibrate, and some even feature rolling balls for extra sensation.

For the best shot at an anal orgasm, the toy should angle toward the testicles. You can leave prostate toys in place — even during other activities — or rock and thrust them gently, whichever feels better. Talk with your man to figure out which anal orgasm techniques actually work for him.

Strap-On Sex

Strap-ons are a great way to bring your partner to an anal orgasm. Wearing one can make you feel powerful in ways you might not expect, which pairs beautifully with power-based roleplay (and is part of why guys enjoy anal sex in the first place). It's also ideal for prostate stimulation, especially with a curved-tip dildo. The prostate sits roughly two inches in, curving toward the stomach, so make sure the dildo's angled correctly.

Check out our advice for massaging his prostate.

Strap-ons attach via a harness, and harnesses come in a range of styles, though the standard design is sized to fit different hip shapes. Some have permanent O-rings; others have replaceable ones that fit any standard flared-base dildo, letting you swap in your favorite dildo. Some harnesses even come bundled with their own dildo or set of dildos.

One well-known brand makes Vac-U-Lock harnesses, which rely on suction rather than an O-ring. Avoid attachments made from anything besides silicone here, since porous materials trap bacteria even after washing — though silicone-compatible Vac-U-Lock attachments are widely available.

Anal Sex

Of course, the most direct route to an anal orgasm is anal sex itself. As the receiving partner, you get a sense of fullness unlike anything else. Either of you can add clitoral stimulation to make climaxing during anal easier.

Check out these anal sex positions. You may need to experiment a bit to find what's comfortable if you're having anal while pregnant.

Approach anal sex slowly and thoughtfully rather than rushing in. Stay relaxed and comfortable, and give plenty of time to foreplay. An orgasm or two beforehand can make it easier to reach an anal orgasm too, especially if multiple orgasms come easily for you.

To avoid pain, try this technique: have your man insert just the tip and hold still until you're ready for him to continue. Or work your way up gradually to his penis (or a larger toy) using smaller toys and fingers first — a method known as anal training.

Skip desensitizing sprays. Pain is your body's warning sign, and ignoring it can cause real damage.

Counterintuitively, pushing down with your anal muscles as your partner first enters can actually make things easier.

Always use lube for anal sex, since the anus can't lubricate itself.

Finally, communication is key to enjoyable anal sex, whether or not it ends in orgasm. Your partner needs to be willing to slow down or stop the moment you ask. Some initial discomfort is normal, especially early on, but it shouldn't ever be genuinely painful or cause bleeding.

And in case you were wondering, you can't get pregnant from anal sex.

Double Penetration

Double penetration might bring to mind a woman with two male partners — one in her ass, one in her vagina. But you can get a similar effect with just one partner and a toy. Because the rectum and vagina sit so close together, adding a second toy or penis heightens stimulation and that sense of fullness, which can help trigger an anal orgasm or intensify vaginal ones.

If you're a guy wondering how to give a woman an anal orgasm, double penetration — whether with another man or with a toy like a butt plug or dildo — is well worth trying.

Sex Positions For Anal Orgasms

Give these positions a try if you're aiming for an anal orgasm.

All fours – Getting on all fours (doggy style) gives easy backdoor access during anal sex, pegging, and rim jobs, and it also works great for solo play with butt plugs, anal beads, and other toys. Either partner can add clitoral stimulation in this position.

On your back – Some people prefer lying on their back with knees drawn toward the chest, for anal sex or other partnered play.

On your side – Lying on your side with your top leg bent toward your chest works well for solo or partnered play too.

Cowgirl or Missionary – You can always slip in your favorite anal toy while riding your man, or stick with standard Missionary. Cowgirl also gives your man easy reach to stimulate your anus manually. Even without a full anal orgasm, that added stimulation can intensify things considerably.

Lotus – Positions like Lotus, where you sit in your partner's lap, also allow for anal sex.

Don't overlook anal sex standing up, sitting with your butt hanging over an edge, or kneeling with your arms supporting you so your butt lifts into the air — a great option for giving yourself an anal orgasm solo.

That said, position may not be the deciding factor in reaching an anal orgasm, particularly for women, since there's no single "spot" that has to be hit the way there is for men (the prostate). Focus on whatever positions feel comfortable and enjoyable for both of you.

Finding What Works For You

There's a wide range of techniques worth trying, but not every one of them will lead to an anal orgasm for you — some simply won't click, and that's okay. You might also enjoy stimulation your partner isn't into, and vice versa. All of that is perfectly normal!

Remember, you're not limited to anal stimulation alone if you're chasing an anal orgasm. Bring in your genitals, nipples, and any other sensitive areas. Connect with as much of your partner's body as you can, and kiss deeply if that's on the table.

How you're feeling physically matters too. If you're unwell or dealing with GI discomfort, it's probably not the moment for heavy anal stimulation, especially anything involving penetration. Listening to your body matters more than chasing the orgasm itself.

You might be pleasantly surprised by how much you end up enjoying anal stimulation. Some women even prefer it to vaginal penetration and like to experiment with anal masturbation! Sharing that kind of intimacy with your man can bring you closer together, too. That said, not everyone reaches an anal orgasm, and some people never feel fully at ease with butt play — wherever you land on that spectrum is completely fine.

One more thing: a little poo is always a possibility when playing back there. If it happens, try not to panic. Clean up, support your partner the way you'd want support yourself, and remember that dental dams and condoms help minimize mess and simplify cleanup.

Figuring out how to orgasm from anal stimulation can take some trial and error, but the process should stay fun. If it's not, there's no harm in setting it aside and trying a different fun sex tip instead.

What Does An Anal Orgasm Actually Feel Like?

We asked our readers to describe what an anal orgasm feels like and how it compares to a clitoral or vaginal one — here are their answers, word for word:

It was more of a pain orgasm where I felt it around the anal area. A good pain and more intense.
It was an intense sensation like a clitoral orgasm but like ten times more intense yet soo good.
He was pounding me deep, hard, and fast and as he got more excited, I got more excited and we came at the same time. It was more of a turn on because of the small amount of pain that added to the pleasure.
Wow! It's the same as a vag/clit orgasm except it's more intense.. ya know like Mount Saint Helen just blew a wad.
The feeling lasted longer than clitoral/vaginal orgasms. I kept moaning even after he was out of me. I also squirt harder from anal. Read next: What does squirting feel like? 119 women explain.
It was better than I expected. It was just the right amount of pain and pleasure. With anal, I am also able to either double penetrate myself with a toy or finger myself as he goes at it.
It was amazing, it is more powerful than a vaginal orgasm.
The anal area is so much more sensitive than the vagina it feels like. So the sensation was on many levels a very titillating experience. It might also be elevated because of the taboo feeling and thought of it.
Different in an up my spine sensation.
It was combined with clitoral but was way more intense than vaginal combined with clitoral. Could come more easily than with vaginal.
Anal sex is really the only way I have an orgasm.
Kind of felt like needed to poop but very pleasurable – asshole throbs, then it spread to the vagina.
It felt like it was a full-body experience.
Uncomfortable like a backwards shit.
When having anal sex it feels like both holes are getting penetrated at the same time. That feeling makes me pulsate and get dripping wet.
I can't really describe it but I do know its not quite as fulfilling as clitoral/vaginal orgasm is but still awesome none the less.
Anal sex gives an intimate pleasure. The feeling is like pressure and you can feel him on your pussy walls from your ass.
I didn't know they existed… until I had one. It was a deeper inner body orgasm.
Not sure that I can describe the difference. He usually is stimulating my clit at the same time.
It was a definite shock when it happened the first time and I was unsure if it was happening. My partner is well endowed and thick. As the layer of "skin" between the vaginal canal and the anal canal is rather thin, he can easily stimulate my vagina at the same time. It wasn't as intense as clit orgasms. It was a bit painful. It was an odd sensation that I wasn't used to. But very similar to a vaginal orgasm, just less intense.
The buildup to an anal orgasm feels more intense and more explosive.
Pain + Pleasure= Body shaking, mind-blowing orgasm!!
It was just an intense feeling of pleasure without the dampness of a vaginal orgasm.
For me, it was a fast, intense orgasm. While clitoral/vaginal is a slow build-up then release.
It felt like a full-body vibration and then I squirted.
I honestly don't know how to describe it…just an amazing feeling that happens in your rectum as well as your vagina.
It was definitely more orgasmic then vaginal and the feeling lasted longer than a vaginal orgasm.
Can't really put into words. It did feel different but similar. I think a lot of it came more from all the emotion and the way he turned me on vs just the physical side of it.
It was very different for me cause I don't really like anal, but at the time it was great I didn't know I could have an orgasm like that. It felt like even tho I was doing anal it didn't matter cause he was loving it and I loved that I was making him feel good, that was enough for me to cum.
Overwhelming it was wild just the feeling of having it exchangeable from the vjay to anal, believe me you explode.
Pain but a good pain.
It was like the feeling of masturbating and cumming mixed with the fullness of a penis continuing to stimulate the orgasm.
It felt deeper somehow than a vaginal orgasm.
Its so much more intense release. I'm thinking of how much he's going to explode inside me. We like to come together with anal.
It has been rather recently that I decided to try it out. I learned I could ejaculate after trying this. It runs my spot and if I can let go and not worry about the sensation of urination I will squirt. Yea!!!!
Vaginal orgasm is like heaven.
It felt really good as he also had his hand in my pussy. It was a combination of clitoral/vaginal orgasm.
I can't put it in words, I always say I almost died of enjoyment. It's indescribable.
It was a combination of anal and clitoral because I was on top. It was an extremely powerful orgasm.
More powerful, made me wet and tingled through my body for longer.
It felt very overwhelming.
It seems stronger & easier than vaginal.
Anal orgasms are less intense for me, there's always a little pain mixed with the pleasure but since we are always in anal my partner's balls are slapping my clit which brings me over the edge combined with him pounding my ass.
It was better. Way more sensitive. But I tend to cum hardest when it's all three at once. Toys are fun. But they can't intimidate you or your man. So something cute and smaller is good.
It's not as strong and can hurt a little.
It was only once and like 15 years ago but it centered in my ass and at the time my ass squeezed him really tight.
It definitely felt more intense than a clitoral orgasm and felt like it was everywhere rather than located in one area. It felt more intimate as well.
Warm tingling! Almost like your shooting out an Enema.
Way more intense, it wasn't with a penis (still scared) but with his finger. I felt like a "noodle" literally.
Nice but not Earth-shattering.
It's like the D penetrates a G spot there (in doggy style) and although it can be a little uncomfortable initially when he puts it in after a while it seems less sensitive and more pleasurable, I squirt quite often with vaginal sex but I had never squirted from anal. He added clitoral stimulation the last time it just took it to a whole new level and I indeed squirted, didn't know it was possible.
It was very surprising at first and the feeling is more intense than a clitoral orgasm. It felt more like it was coming from deeper inside of you.
My bum feels all tingly, tingly. I am M-F Transgender.
More intense and you have to let go of control.
It's the strongest orgasm I have. I still have to have clitoral and sometimes a little vaginal stimulation. Not sure how my husband can accomplish it all at the same time but he does. The only catch is sometimes I want it and other times it hurts. It's definitely mood dependant.
It's amazing once you just relax and enjoy it. Orgasm is like, "No this can't be happening but omg oh yes it is happening!"
The most amazing experience! Hard to explain what it felt like other than just an orgasm. I did feel like I orgasmed in both my vagina and ass when it happened so it was pretty intense.
It felt wonderful because my vagina was just dripping.
It was more powerful and felt like my whole body just went limp.
Way more intense, oh too hard to explain.
More intense. I can squirt from anal stimulation but not vaginal or clitoral.
It was with vaginal action as well, so both ends twitching it's a "wrong-but-so-right" feeling.
It was a deep vibration at the base of my spine.
I can't explain it.
It felt somehow deeper and more similar to a happy orgasm.
It was more intense, I felt like it traveled to my vagina.
Turned on knowing it's not where you should be.
It's different and painful but worth it,
It's at first a bit of pain, but also very sexy to give pleasure to my man this way, he wanted to try so much. I had to drink a bottle of wine to have courage. He has to be very careful and you have to have confidence that he can stop at any time if it hurts too much. I try not to get nervous because it can hurt a lot if you put resistance. It's very rewarding to be able to do it. You have to use lube and he has to be very slow because the anus is very sensitive and if it hurts it might close a bit. So if you are relaxed, you are able to feel a lot in the anus and in the vagina together. There is a lot of pleasure involved.
I felt dirtier doing it this way.
You lose way more control snd squirting is generally involved.
I can't have an anal orgasm on its own. To come I need clitoris stimulation as well but the orgasm…OMG.
Tried many times before to have anal. Never could quite relax to allow him in. But the man I am w/ now is my other half. I felt the world around us disappeared and it was only just me and him. Every part of my body felt ecstasy.
It is pretty similar to a vaginal orgasm because during anal that wall is so thin everything is being stimulated inside the vagina as well. It is more powerful the a clitoral or vaginal orgasm. When you manage to stimulate all three at the same time you get the most intense orgasm of them all.
As soon as he entered me from behind I had the most incredible orgasm I don't know if it was what you are asking but it sure was different.
It was during a threesome. It was just different felt goooodd. Try these kinky threesome positions next time.
He stimulated my G Spot through my ass. Felt like he was in my vagina.. It was amazing!!
Mmm I cum the absolute hardest this way… it is intense, it's like the outcome of edging. Encompasses the whole body.
An anal orgasm is more pleasurable. With a vaginal orgasm, you get the orgasm along with a lot of muscle tightening and whole-body participation. With an anal orgasm, it's concentrated in that one spot.
Different in the same way a clitoral and vaginal orgasm are different from each other. A wave of energy, pleasure pulsating.
It hits the g spot from a different angle. It felt amazing.
It was just painful enough to feel naughty and risky, which excited me to the point of orgasmic pleasure.
I squirted while having anal sex. I'm someone who really enjoys having anal sex. It's almost as if the orgasm makes you quiver. It's not as hard as a vaginal orgasm but it's just as enjoyable.
To me, it felt the same as a vaginal orgasm. I could feel my vagina contracting as if he was in there, and I left just as big a wet spot just as with any other orgasm. The one difference was that I orgasmed faster than a vaginal and/or clitoral orgasm.
My legs were absolutely trembling.
The pressure is different, and there's something 'naughty' about it. I love that both the anal and clitoral areas get stimulated by it (when I'm on top).
It's a different orgasm, sharper almost.
Intense pleasure deep in my soul. Clitoral orgasm is beautiful but anal is intense. I would love to have 2 men reaching orgasm together.
It's more toe-curling, hot and heavy chest compared to vaginal orgasms. Just make sure you're extra extra lubed.
A small orgasm starts at your core and travels out in waves. It is more intense than a clitoral orgasm. Not as intense as a vaginal orgasm tho.
I'm unsure if it was due to just the anal part. We do it missionary still since I'm new at anal. So he stimulates my clit while he penetrates. It's definitely a different feeling from vaginal penetration. I feel fuller. My legs are higher up which makes him hit my clit from a different angle.
Quick bursts of pleasure, muscle clenching.
Yes it felt more explosive and made me feel fuller and rippled through my pussy and I even soaked the place.
To me, how my guy touched me help, how he went slow then fast. A lot of it was the emotions that we had for each other. He made my ass feel like heaven. It felt so good.
More powerful and I find them more pleasurable. Hard to describe.
It was way more intense. Shock waves seem to go on forever.
It feels somewhat similar to a vaginal orgasm for me, except the tightness around the sphincter muscle adds extra stimulation. It's like stretching a really tight muscle. I think we've all rolled our eyes back in our heads after a good stretch. It sort of feels like you have to pee if your partner is hitting the right spot, and it just continues to build until I orgasm. The difference for me is that with an anal or vaginal orgasm, I get more relaxed as I get closer. But a clitoral orgasm makes me muscles tense more and more until I finish.
Is very similar to vaginal orgasm. I like anal sex. But, I was only able to anal orgasm with my current partner. He makes me feel very comfortable and at the same time under control. He makes me feel like I'm the perfect girl, no matter what… Is all about connection. Discover how many women like anal sex.
Slower build up and not as intense.
Only had anal a few times, same guy, both new at it, its somehow more intense, especially when he had his finger in my vagina too, both filled, first experience squirting too, it was flipping good.
Sent chills all over my body. Kind of like an outer body experience.
It was so amazing it seemed like I had all three spots at one time. I was on top cowgirl style and rubbing my clit against his pubic bone. He was thrusting his cock into my ass and it seemed like it was hitting from my ass right to my g spot at the same time. It felt different like the normal buildup butterfly feeling you get while working up to the vaginal orgasm. It almost felt like there's a stronger build-up and when you get to that point when you orgasm I felt like everything was working simultaneously. It made me cry. It's hard to explain it feels so good. I don't want to try and duplicate it because if so I might only have that kind of sex every time. It's almost like it would ruin regular sex for me if I were to indulge in it more often.
It comes on like a tidal wave. At first, I tried to resist it because I was worried about how powerful it was. It felt like a lot of pressure, then an explosion of feelings that I could also feel contracting in my vagina. Clitoral orgasms are very localized, but the anal orgasm felt like it took over my entire body.
The anal orgasm felt like an explosion that was a bit deeper than the vaginal orgasm. The pleasure was from his strong and steady strokes that went deeper and deeper with each thrust.
It's definitely a different orgasm than a clitoral or vaginal orgasm because it's different nerves and sensitivity. It's difficult to describe any orgasm really but an anal one for me is much more exciting. I think your body is naturally somewhat tense as you start and I think that when you orgasm, it's a big release and relaxing of those muscles (the best way I can describe it even if it's not completely accurate). The way the muscles relax at that moment is incredible.
One word… Intense. Anal sex just takes things to the next level. It is an incredible tightening of every muscle when it happens.
Very hard to describe. A mixture of pleasure and pain.
Well, it felt deeper more intense but I have a hard time with emotion and control. I wanted to squirt but did not.
It felt absolutely amazing but definitely different from other orgasms. For me, it was so intense I almost passed out. My body felt so much pleasure it was almost too much lol.
I've only had it once. But so memorable, as I didn't know you could have an anal orgasm. May I be graphic? I had to have a bowel movement, but I wanted to finish a tv show that was almost over. I clenched my muscles a bit, and all of a sudden, I was having an orgasm there.. it went on and on.. longer than a Vaginal orgasm! It was amazing.
Very intense squeezing but it causes the vagina to squeeze too.
Was harder. Hurt a little but was also very pleasurable.
Easier orgasm to achieve and gets waves of pleasure that last longer. Being able to orgasm from the clit and anal simultaneously is mind-blowing.
Good, but I still enjoy vag orgasm more though.
It was an amazing feeling. A numb feeling in your stomach and knees feel like giving in. You have to try yourself to get the feeling.
Felt naughty. Plus seeing him enjoy it as much as me 🙂
Felt like my whole body was rocked. The stretch and slight pain was what did it for me. Then he went deeper and then I orgasmed.
I felt filled/stretched in a different way from vaginal. I could feel his cock hit my insides but from a different side. Knowing it was considered taboo but still enjoying it made me enjoy it more. Knowing he really wanted this and that I was willing to give it made me hornier.
Spams of pleasure. I felt completely penetrated, after many vaginal and clit orgasms, I was fully relaxed and anal pushed me over the edge.
Once your mind gets past the pain and focuses on the pleasure it's a more intense orgasm.
It was like my whole pelvic floor was pulsing.
I writhe uncontrollably and I can't stop moaning.
It's hard to describe… and doesn't happen often. It's honestly stronger than a vaginal orgasm – it brings tears to my eyes!!!
I was in the mood and it felt naughty. It was different because it is considered more taboo.
Unexplainable. Absolutely put me right into subspace.
Deeper and whole body including legs.
Full body shockwaves almost instantaneously instead of a slow build.
We were so drunk and it happened by mistake. We're not into anal but it felt like a clit orgasm on steroids.
At 1st it hurt like hell but once I relaxed and embraced it I got off like no other its kind of hard to explain.
It was a different feeling it was nice but also very painful.
Amazing !! Different how … because my partner was so gentle and so excited, moaning and loving… best feeling ever!
It lasted longer and it felt like electrical pulses going through my body. I felt nothing but pure satisfaction. My breasts were tingling and it reached my fingertips. My body felt as if it was floating on air and a huge pressure was released.
It was very intense, very fast, I wish it had lasted longer, it created a release in my entire body.
It felt similar to a vaginal orgasm, but kinkier, hard to explain.
Well I know it was the pressure through my anal wall to my G spot and deep vaginal area so it was less direct but I have squirted from anal sex before.
Pulsing release of pain and pleasure. It hurts real good. I hate and want it deeper and the movement to be slow and intentional.

We also got feedback from a single guy:

A warm glowing feeling that takes your breath away, makes you breath deeply and your prostate feels warm and fuzzy.

Frequently Asked Questions

FAQ #1 – Can everyone have an anal orgasm?

Orgasms are deeply individual, so it's hard to say a flat "yes." People often struggle to orgasm in general, and anal orgasms are no exception.

Still, plenty of men can enjoy anal orgasms simply because that's where the prostate lives — the key to giving a man one at all. In fact, for many, the prostate might be the only realistic route to an anal-only orgasm.

Some (though not all) women can have anal orgasms too, despite not having a prostate. The pudendal nerve branches out to both the clitoris and rectum [5], contributes to sexual sensation in the penis [6], and also feeds sensation to the labia and clitoris [7]. So it likely plays some role in women's anal orgasms too. It's also possible that G Spot stimulation or even A Spot stimulation through the anal wall contributes to a woman climaxing during anal sex.

Even if an anal orgasm never happens for you, there's still plenty of fun to be had experimenting!

FAQ #2 – What if anal sex feels painful rather than pleasurable?

That's completely normal too — but if the pain feels disproportionate, something else might be going on. Anal sex, for example, can aggravate hemorrhoids and cause bleeding [8]. Always reach for lube to make things more comfortable, whether you're trying to give a woman an anal orgasm or working out how to reach one yourself. We've also got a guide on why anal sex can hurt and what to do to make it pain-free.

January 2, 2021

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