Mastering The Standing Sex Position
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The standing sex position is a genuinely enjoyable rear entry pose worth trying if you already like Doggy Style or Basset Hound. It calls for a little flexibility and leg strength to execute well. Looking for something simpler? Check our sex positions guide with over 100 options!
To begin this standing sex position, both of you face the same direction while standing. Your man then enters you. Once penetrated, lean forward and stretch your arms down until your hands touch the floor for balance. Ideally, keep your hands close to your feet, but if flexibility is an issue or it feels uncomfortable, feel free to lean forward less.
Her Role In The Standing Position
The first time you try this standing sex position, it might feel a bit disorienting since your head ends up upside down — tell your man to start slow and easy. Once you're settled, use your arms to push back against him. Keep in mind that if your hands sit right by your feet, you won't have much room to push back.
You can also try taking him deep and holding him there while grinding up and down with your hips — similar moves to a lap dance.
His Role In The Standing Position
Your man's job in the standing position is simply thrusting in and out. He can also bend his knees and lean back to shift his entry angle, and take things further from there. He can place his hands on your waist to control speed and depth, or, for something a bit more kinky, grab your hair for added roughness.
A pleasurable move your man can use in most standing positions like this one is thrusting deep and then, while still inside you, grinding up and down by bending his knees — a nice change of pace from plain in-and-out thrusting.
Notes On Trying The Standing Position
Having talked with many students who've tried this popular standing position, I've noticed a few recurring points:
- You'll tire out faster than your man while bent over. If your arms start feeling like jelly, try bending your knees slightly.
- You can lean back heavily into your man, shifting much of the weight off your arms — another good way to give them a break.
- Your man can use his hand(s) to manually stimulate your clit and the area around your vagina.
- If you can comfortably spread your legs, a spreader bar (a common bondage tool) might interest you!
- Standing positions like this one also work great for anal sex — more on that here.
- Your man should keep adjusting his entry angle until he lands on something you truly enjoy.
Similar Standing Sex Positions
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Triceratops – You bend forward while he grips your arms.
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Burning Man – Lean over a piece of furniture as your man takes you from behind.
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Washing Machine – Lean over the washer while it runs.
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Sean's Thoughts On The Standing Sex Position
I really enjoy this standing pose. Combining it with sex against a wall works great since it lets my girl easily push herself back onto me.
March 1, 2021
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