48 Wild, Kinky & Romantic Spots To Have Sex & Go Down On Each Other

Here's a rundown of 48 amazing spots to get intimate with your partner. If the mattress, sofa, and rug have already been checked off, brace yourself for some mind-blowing new options!

A Quick Warning About Sex in Public Places

This list covers a handful of public-sex suggestions, but use your head about it. If you're caught, you could be looking at an arrest and fines for indecent exposure. Rules and penalties differ by region, so look up what applies in your country, city, state, or county before you go for it.

At a minimum, never get intimate anywhere near people who didn't sign up to see it — that's a recipe for real trouble.

Best Places To Have Sex In Public

Sure, there's risk involved, but your exhibitionist streak is begging for a public romp anyway! Below you'll find both the classic risky spots and a few places where getting frisky in public is actually pretty accepted.

1. A Park

A park carries some risk for outdoor sex since other people (and maybe even the cops) could show up, but that danger can actually ramp up the intensity. Scope out a spot to sit, lie down, or park where no cameras are pointed your way.

Parks tend to clear out at night, though patrols still happen, so a daytime session might be the safer bet. Toss a blanket down for comfort, and bring a picnic basket as your cover story.

2. The Laundromat

What else is there to do while the dryer runs? Most laundromats have cameras, sure, but you might be able to slip into the restroom if it's empty and nobody's paying attention.

Got a laundry room in your building? That could work too, camera permitting! Give the Washing Machine position a shot for a bonus dose of clitoral stimulation.

3. A Balcony

A balcony off your apartment or hotel room is a gamble, but curtains or shades buy you privacy, and you can tuck yourselves behind plants or a railing for extra cover.

4. The Library

Having to keep dead silent can turn this into a night you'll never forget. Cover your partner's mouth with your hand, or sneak in a ball gag if kinkier sex is your thing. Pick a deserted corner and keep an eye out for the librarian.

5. A Locker Room/Gym Shower

Yes, locker rooms can be sticky, smelly, and less than pristine. But they also put you in close quarters with other undressed people. This one really only makes sense if you and a fellow gym member have been eyeing each other (especially handy if you're gay and share a locker room).

So if the sexual tension has been building, a late-night or after-hours session is your best shot at not losing your membership over it.

6. The Pool

Sunlight overhead and water against your skin practically dares you to make love outdoors. That's exactly why pools — private or not — remain one of the go-to hookup spots.

Check out our pool sex guide for some great pointers.

7. A Public Bathroom

A public restroom is about as far from private as it gets, and no one's going to be fooled when you two walk out looking rumpled. Still, it's often the only option available for public sex.

Single-stall bathrooms with a lock are your best bet for enough time to really get freaky together, but a regular stall will do in a pinch if needed.

8. The Back/Storage Room

Job security be damned, plenty of people have hooked up at work. The back room is a favorite because foot traffic is low (we've even heard stories about people getting it on in a walk-in freezer!). Stacks of filing cabinets, servers, or boxes also give you cover from coworkers and bosses.

9. The Beach

Like the pool, the beach makes for a fun daytime hookup, particularly if there's a covered lounger, a changing area, or a cabana for rent. Don't skip protection — or sunscreen!

10. A Closet

Your own bedroom closet probably isn't the sexiest venue, but a coat or utility closet in a public building is a different story. Duck in when the coast is clear and use any shelf that'll get you into position.

11. A Photo Booth

Those little curtains only offer the illusion of privacy. But if you're already worked up (check out how to get turned on fast) and sitting or straddling positions work for you, you might just finish before the photo strip prints. Keep those souvenirs away from prying eyes.

12. In Front of a Window

Some might say this doesn't quite count as public, but if the window's open and neighbors or passersby could easily catch a glimpse, we're counting it! Sheer curtains or dimmed lights offer a little extra cover, of course.

13. A Campground

Camping might be the ideal blend of nature and legit public sex. You're practically expected to have sex in the woods when camping with your partner, and getting intimate on a camping trip is practically a given (save the heavy-duty vibrator for another night) as long as you keep the noise down and leave no trace.

14. Play/Swinging Parties

Want public sex without the legal risk? Maybe the thought of an audience turns you on. If so, a play party could be right up your alley. Usually thrown in homes or clubs, these gatherings are a judgment-free zone for public intimacy. None nearby? Host your own and invite your most sexually adventurous friends!

A party built around swinging — sometimes called a key party — is a specific flavor of play party centered on swapping partners.

Discover: What is a swinger.

15. Adult Cruises and Festivals

Cruises and festivals catering to nudists, swingers, and kinksters frequently have dedicated playrooms where you can get busy with your partner or maybe even a stranger.

Some events lean toward nudity, others toward kink or education, so confirm the specific event has a playroom and that you're allowed in (some are couples-only, or require an invite for single men, etc.).

16. A Resort

Beyond the events above, adult resorts exist specifically to celebrate sensuality, nudity, and sexual exploration. Just like the events, though, being adult or nudist-friendly doesn't automatically mean sex is allowed.

A number of resorts do offer designated public play spaces.

17. A Steam Room/Sauna

If a fancy cruise or resort isn't in the cards and you're willing to gamble on getting caught, try a hotel, spa, or gym steam room or sauna. You're already in a bathing suit or towel, and the steam obscures you from view (some steam rooms are even clothing-optional to start!). Climb onto your partner's lap and get to work (one of these sitting positions could help).

Just don't linger too long in there — dehydration and other health risks are a real concern.

18. A Stairwell

A dim, rarely-used stairwell gives you a shot at getting intimate when nothing else is available. Bonus: the steps themselves can help you land a comfortable position!

Related: 119 Best Sex Positions

19. A Movie Theater

With today's wider, reclining seats, movie theaters have never been a better venue for a little action! The dark room provides cover, and a blanket hides any wandering hands. Worried about getting caught? Book an empty showing (easy with online reservations) and grab seats toward the back, away from other patrons.

Try the cinema blow job position to go down on your guy.

Best Places To Have Car Sex

Cars feel enclosed and safe, but there's still a chance of getting spotted — which some people find thrilling! Before trying these car-sex locations, check out our tips for comfortable car sex.

20. The Car Wash

The car wash works great because the suds block you from view and muffle sound. Just line your car up correctly, pull forward when told to, and don't accidentally hit the gas or jerk the wheel — that's a lesson you don't want to learn the expensive, embarrassing way. Spring for the premium wash to buy yourselves more time. Worth every extra dollar!

21. A Truck Stop

Truck stops exist so travelers can rest for a few hours, giving you plenty of time to squeeze in a quickie (or not so quick, if you prefer). No tinted windows? No problem — grab some sunshades or privacy curtains.

22. A Limo

Between the tinted exterior windows and the interior divider, a limo lets you get down to business with total privacy. The extra legroom is a nice bonus too. All you really need is a legal spot to park before you get undressed.

23. A Ferry

Certain ferries let passengers stay inside their vehicle during the crossing, opening the door for a discreet session. Privacy curtains help if you're worried about being seen. Just don't get caught when the boat docks!

24. A Parking Garage

Not exactly glamorous, we know, but parking garages are everywhere and can be dark and empty enough for privacy. Watch out for garages with security patrols or cameras — your license plate can give you away.

Best Places To Have Sex Without Getting Caught

To dodge detection entirely, you need somewhere private, out of the way, and free of cameras — no small feat these days, given how many public spots (including outdoor ones) are under surveillance. So here's a rundown of spots where you're unlikely to get busted or land in trouble.

25. A Barn

You're far more likely to bump into livestock than people in a barn, making it a solid choice for staying under the radar. A hay bale can double as a bed, though we'd suggest laying a blanket down first to avoid an uncomfortable poke.

26. The Woods

The woods can make for a great low-risk hookup spot if you plan ahead. The farther off the trail, the better your odds. Just don't wander too far and lose your bearings, and watch for wildlife as you pick out the right tree, log, or stump to lean on.

27. A Hotel Room

Booking hotel-room sex buys you both privacy and novelty. Springing for a suite with a hot tub kicks things up another notch. And someone else handles the cleanup!

28. A Houseboat or Floating Villa

Why settle for a land-based rental when a houseboat or floating villa gives you something far more memorable? Houseboats usually stay close to shore, while floating villas can be anchored farther out, offering more seclusion and an open-water experience.

If you're willing to risk being seen, some of these boats have patios or roof decks perfect for a little mischief.

This could also be the ideal setting for your partner to go down on you.

29. A Deer Stand

Hunters know deer stands well — they're the perches used to wait quietly for deer in the woods. Bigger stands can double as a love nest, especially handy if you need to stay warm! A bench seat lets you lie down, though a solid ledge, chair, or even the floor works too. Just be warned that too much noise might scare off the local wildlife.

30. An Ice Shanty

Only folks who live where lakes freeze solid in winter will know what an ice shanty even is. These little shacks that shield ice fishers from the cold could double as a private hideaway. Nobody's going to interrupt you, and you'll need to stay warm somehow.

31. A Yacht

Another boat option? Absolutely! Yacht owners have almost certainly already tested this one out. But did you know yachts are also available to rent, crew included?

Companies rent smaller yachts to private parties, or you can book a cabin aboard a larger one, similar to a mini cruise. As a bonus, you'll get access to water activities and stops at scenic destinations.

Craziest Places To Have Sex

Here are some of the most outrageous sex locations out there. Enter at your own risk!

32. A Ferris Wheel

A Ferris wheel definitely qualifies as an outrageous choice, mostly because you won't have much room to move. Go for a larger wheel with a roomier car, and try sitting on your partner's lap. Save the risqué stuff for when you're up higher than the other cars, though.

33. An Airplane

Sex on a plane might be a cliché — hello, mile-high club — but people still swear by it. Meet your partner in the lavatory... assuming you can both actually fit. A position like the Bodyguard tends to work best in that cramped space. That tight squeeze might rule out giving him head, though.

34. The Side of a Cliff

If you're a serious climber, you know some people sleep suspended off a cliff face mid-climb. Maybe you've done it yourself. So naturally, the question arises: could you have sex up there too? Possibly, but it comes with real risk.

You'd need a hanging tent or portaledge sturdy enough to hold both bodies plus the motion involved. You'll also have to navigate around safety ropes and gear while keeping everything and everyone secured. And since sex works up a sweat, you'll need extra water — which is often in short supply during a climb.

35. An Igloo

Most people know igloos as the traditional snow shelters used by Inuit communities in the far north for temporary protection from harsh weather. A properly built one stays surprisingly warm inside, making sex entirely possible. You probably won't find an authentic igloo easily, but similar arctic lodging can sometimes be rented.

36. An Ambulance

Who says ambulances only save lives? Get busy in one, and you might just help create one (unless you're avoiding pregnancy, in which case, grab a condom).

The back comes pre-equipped with a gurney, though comfort isn't exactly guaranteed. Most people don't have ambulance access, but if you or your partner works in emergency medicine, you might be able to swing it.

37. An Abandoned Building

Whether it's a house or a warehouse, an abandoned building can set the scene for some incredible sex. Just pick one that's structurally solid — the last thing you need is a collapse mid-session. Since a safe place to lie down might not exist, check out these standing positions for ideas.

Kinky Places to Have Sex

If the public spots above already struck you as pretty daring, get ready — these next suggestions take it even further. We'd bet they top most people's list of the wildest sex locations imaginable!

38. A Dungeon

What's kinkier than getting intimate in a dungeon or BDSM room set aside specifically for bondage?

MisterBandB, a platform built around the LGBTQ+ community, offers kinky rooms and spaces available for rent.

There are also dedicated kink venues renting out space, some styled as dungeons or play spaces and others more like kink-friendly bed and breakfasts.

39. A Coffin

Some people already sleep in coffins, so why not have sex in one? You can sometimes find them secondhand at a low price, or build/buy a coffin-shaped bed if this happens to be a deep-seated fantasy of yours. And to be crystal clear, we're talking about consenting adults here, nothing else.

40. A Church

We went back and forth on whether this counts as outrageous or kinky — it could honestly be either. Some people find it far too disrespectful to attempt, while others get off on the taboo of church sex. Beyond the main sanctuary (nave) with its pews, there's also storage rooms, offices, the basement, choir loft, balcony, or organ room to consider.

Best Places To Give A Blow Job

Short on time or privacy? Oral sex is often simpler to pull off than full penetration since you don't need to fully undress or find something to lie, sit, or lean against. Have fun trying out all these spots to go down on your man.

41. The Front Door

It might not sound wild on paper, but greeting your partner with oral the second they walk through the front door instantly ramps up the intensity. We'd wager this becomes a regular go-to the moment you try it.

Psst — check out these intense blow job techniques for more ways to blow his mind.

42. An Elevator

With just enough space to kneel, an elevator ranks among the best public-adjacent spots for oral. Pick a slow, low-traffic elevator, and start near the top or bottom floor of a tall building to buy yourself extra time.

43. A Dark Alley

Dark, aroused, maybe a little tipsy — an alley behind a bar or your building suddenly seems like a perfectly reasonable place to drop to your knees and pleasure someone orally. Could be a partner, could be someone you just met. Either way, don't hesitate to unzip or hike up a skirt to get yours too!

Romantic Places To Make Love

Maybe hookup spots aren't really your thing, and you'd rather explore romantic settings to connect with your partner instead. We've got plenty of ideas if intimacy is the goal. Just remember, making love is really about the person you're with, not the location or the act itself.

44. The Shower

Lathering up your partner and washing every inch of their body can feel deeply intimate. Add shaving to the mix for an even closer connection!

Full Guide: How to shave down there for women.

And if you've got access to an outdoor shower, being surrounded by nature makes the whole thing even more special.

Related: How to Have Incredible Shower Sex

45. Your Bed

Yes — the bed you already share is still among the most romantic places you'll ever have sex. It's yours, it's free, and (hopefully) private. You've likely got dildos and other sex toys within arm's reach too. Best of all, it's a reminder of your shared life and commitment, and afterward you can cuddle up and drift off together, fully satisfied.

46. A Rented Cabin

Hotels can definitely feel romantic, especially with an anniversary package (anniversary gift ideas here) or a Valentine's Day upgrade. But a cozy cabin overlooking a lake or featuring a crackling fireplace takes things up a notch when your goal isn't just sex but real emotional connection. Pull up Airbnb and see what's bookable for a romantic getaway (short or long)!

More tips on how to have romantic sex.

47. Beneath the Stars

An easy way to score a romantic starlit night is tossing a few blankets or sleeping bags into the bed of a truck. No truck? Sleeping bags laid on the ground work fine too. Just choose your spot and check the weather carefully (a glass igloo or a tent with a skylight can help here). Nobody wants poison ivy or a scorpion bite in a sensitive spot!

48. Under a Waterfall

Not everyone lives near a waterfall, but you can plan a hike or swim to one where privacy allows for some intimacy. It's obviously far less romantic if the spot's crowded or you end up in handcuffs, so scope out the waterfall in advance and plan your visit carefully.

Hopefully this list has sparked some ideas for public, romantic, and downright wild places to get intimate. Even if you thought you'd already seen it all, a few of these suggestions probably surprised you. Did we skip your favorite spot? Tell us in the comments!

March 24, 2023