How To Try The Sitting Sex Position

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The sitting sex position shares some similarities with the Back Seat Driver position. As you'd guess from the name, it's built around a table and chair, making it perfect for right after a meal! It's one of many novel positions in our sex positions guide with illustrations.

To get into the sitting position, your man sits on a chair positioned about 2 feet from a table, facing it, with his legs spread fairly wide. You then back yourself up into him, standing with your legs close together. Optionally, he can lift his legs off the ground and rest them on the table, which effectively 'traps' you between his legs.

Her Role In The Sitting Position

In the sitting position, keep your legs together and slightly bent as you 'bounce' up and down on his shaft. While doing this, you can also squeeze your legs tightly together to syntribate for extra pleasure.

Rest your hands on the table in front of you for stability and to control your pace. Alternatively, sit fully down on his lap with him inside you and simply gyrate your hips, rubbing yourself against him.

You can also plant your hands on your man's legs to help push yourself up and down. If you do, aim for his thighs near his hips, this puts minimal strain on him. Avoid his shins or knees, which could hurt him.

His Role In The Sitting Position

Your man sits in the chair with his back against the backrest during the sitting position, but he's not entirely passive. He can grip your waist to help lift you up and down, or grab your shoulders to pull you down harder with each stroke for more intensity.

He's also well-positioned to massage your breasts, masturbate you, or finger you if you're having anal sex. If you're into rough sex, he can scratch or bite your back too.

Tips For Making The Sitting Position Work

There are a few things worth knowing about the sitting position, based on feedback from my students.

• The sitting position works well for anal sex as well as vaginal, both are easy to perform from this setup.
• You might not click with it right away. My advice is to give it several tries before ruling it out. Leaning forward or backward can help you find a much better angle.
• During the sitting position, your man is perfectly positioned to massage and kiss your back and neck. Tips for giving a massage.

Similar Positions

Back Seat Driver

Back Seat Driver – No table? No problem! You can still ride him!

Lap Dance

Lap Dance – Just like the name suggests.

Lazy Wheelbarrow

Lazy Wheelbarrow – Lean down to the floor if you can.

Washing Machine

Washing Machine – A standing pose where you lean over a piece of furniture.

These are just a few of the positions where you're in his lap.

Go deeper: You may also want to experiment with these 14 fun sofa sex positions.

Sean's Take On The Sitting Sex Position

As a guy, I genuinely enjoy the sitting position. The best way to set it up is by surprising your man with it right after cooking his favorite meal. If you're wearing a short dress with no panties, sliding into this position becomes effortless, which makes the whole thing even hotter!

February 16, 2021