The Bodyguard Sex Position

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The Bodyguard sex position sits somewhere between classic Spooning and the Standing position. It's ideal for couples who want the raw energy of Doggystyle paired with the closeness of Spooning. Check out the Love Curi list of great sex positions for even more moves to try with your guy!

To try the Bodyguard, both of you stand upright, facing the same direction, with him behind you as he enters you. If he's taller, he'll likely need to bend his knees a bit to line things up. After that, it's just a matter of him thrusting or you pushing back into him.

What The Girl Does In The Bodyguard Position

In the Bodyguard, how involved you get is entirely your call. Happy to let your man run the show? Go for it. Want to get in on the action too? There's plenty you can do.

You can push yourself back against him as he moves. You can also reach back and wrap your arms around his waist and butt, pulling him closer with each thrust. For something extra intimate, tilt your head back to rest on his shoulder, giving him easy access to kiss your cheek and neck.

You're also free to play with your breasts or rub your clit.

What The Guy Does In The Bodyguard Position

Unlike some other positions covered on Love Curi, the Bodyguard is refreshingly simple. Your man just needs to thrust forward and back. He can adjust his entry angle by standing taller or bending his knees to drop lower.

Since he's positioned behind you, he can wrap his arms around your body for extra closeness — around your waist, your shoulders, even your neck. Holding onto your waist also gives him more leverage for deeper, harder thrusts.

Things To Consider When Performing The Bodyguard Position

Plenty of students I've talked with love the Bodyguard for how easy it is and the closeness it brings, which many people crave while making love. Here's some of what they do to mix it up:

• If you like this position but want a twist, have your man bend his knees to get lower and thrust upward instead of straight forward.
• For extra friction — great if he's on the smaller side — bring your legs together.
• For the most body contact, have him fully wrap his arms around you, either tucking his arms under yours to grip your shoulders, or wrapping one arm high and one low.
• Try leaning your full weight back into him and let gravity handle the work instead of thrusting back yourself.

Similar Positions

Slow Dance

Face each other for this romantic pose!

Pearly Gates

He lies on his back while you press against his chest.

Standing

Basically Spooning, but on your feet.

Teaspooning

If your height difference makes standing sex awkward, try kneeling instead.

Discover more standing positions here.

Sean's Thoughts On The Bodyguard Sex Position

I'm a big fan of the Bodyguard because of how close and intimate it feels with a partner. It's also incredibly easy to shift gears from slow and tender to rough, intense sex in an instant while in this position.

April 3, 2021