The Ultimate Sex Bucket List: 243 Things To Try Before You Die

Worried you'll grow old without ever having truly great sex? Don't be! The Love Curi Sex Bucket List rounds up 243 different sexual experiences to make your sex life more adventurous than……just about anyone's!

The Love Curi Sex Bucket List

1. 1. Wake your partner with a handjob or by fingering them

   2. Kiss a woman

   3. Have sex with a celebrity

   4. Have sex without any kissing at all

   5. Have loud, vocal, screaming sex

   6. Masturbate

   7. Finger yourself

   8. Use a vibrator

   9. Try a dildo

   10. Insert a butt plug or anal beads while masturbating

   11. Use Ben Wa balls

   12. Masturbate while watching porn

   13. Masturbate by candlelight

   14. Take someone's virginity

   15. Have a one-night stand

   16. Get yourself a fuck buddy – you'll likely need to be single for this one!

   17. Sleep with someone old enough to be your parent

   18. Sleep with someone young enough to be your child – keep it legal, obviously!

   19. Sleep with someone of a different race

   20. Sleep with someone who speaks a different language than you

   21. Sleep with someone smaller than you

   22. Sleep with someone taller than you

   23. Try resistance play – act like you're not into it while your partner playfully overpowers, touches and pursues you (make sure you've agreed on a safe word beforehand)

   24. Hire an escort

   25. Sleep with an Olympic athlete

   26. Have sex near or beneath a large waterfall

   27. Sleep with a total stranger

   28. Play music on your stereo while having sex

   29. Check out a male strip show

   30. Have break-up sex

   31. Finger yourself or masturbate somewhere someone might notice, without them realizing what you're up to – stay within the law!

   32. Go skinny dipping

   33. Try every sex position – these 119 positions, complete with photos, will get you started!

   34. Try anal sex

   35. Exchange dirty text messages

   36. Film a homemade video together – trust is everything here, since you definitely don't want it ending up online!

   37. Trade nude photos with each other – again, this only works with real trust, since you don't want the internet seeing you naked.

   38. Talk dirty to one another

   39. Have phone sex

   40. Try Skype sex or cybersex

   41. Send sexy snail mail – works even if you live together, and makes for a fun surprise

   42. Have sex in the shower, or masturbate under the shower head

   43. Have sex in the ocean

   44. Have sex on a beach – bring a blanket! Sand in unwanted places can really hurt

   45. Have sex in a car

   46. Give your man a blowjob while he's driving – returning the favor while you drive is admittedly trickier (learn my go-to techniques in this blow job tutorial video)

   47. Give your partner a handjob or finger them while they're driving

   48. Have sex in an elevator

   49. Have sex in the rain

   50. Have sex in the desert

   51. Use ice or frozen berries in your mouth during oral sex

   52. Have sex in a hotel room

   53. Have sex in every room of your house

   54. Have sex in a forest

   55. Have sex in a department store fitting room

   56. Have sex in public

   57. Have sex while wearing lingerie

   58. Have sex while in costume

   59. Eat food off each other – whipped cream and fruit work great here (if a bit messy). Skip anything oily or fishy, though.

   60. Perform oral sex using syrup, cream, honey, lube, or another liquid on your partner's genitals

   61. Masturbate together, watching each other

   62. Masturbate each other simultaneously – he fingers you while you give him a handjob

   63. Have sex blindfolded

   64. Try sex with restraints – arms bound behind the back, tied to the bed, or bent over a chair or table. Take turns being the one restrained!

   65. Spank and be spanked, by hand

   66. Make out somewhere crowded and public. Discover 48 other great places to make out and have sex.

   67. Play strip poker

   68. Have sex on a boat – smaller tends to be more of an adventure. Cruise ship sex is fairly easy since everyone has a cabin; a small dinghy is another story.

   69. Use a vibrator during sex

   70. Use a dildo during sex

   71. Use a butt plug during sex

   72. Suck on your partner's toes – maybe wash them first!

   73. Use anal beads during sex

   74. Put a cock ring on your partner during sex – a vibrating one is optional

   75. Wear a chastity device for at least a day before sex – on you, your partner, or both

   76. Use nipple clamps during sex – on either or both of you

   77. Have sex at your workplace

   78. Join the mile-high club – have sex on a plane

   79. Give or receive a blowjob or cunnilingus

   80. Suck, kiss, and lick your partner's balls, or their labia

   81. Deep-throat your partner, or penetrate them deeply with your tongue

   82. Give a handjob or try fingering

   83. Try anal fingering

   84. Give a prostate massage – unfortunately, there's no direct equivalent for women

   85. Give each other a regular massage that finishes with a happy ending

   86. Have sex while others watch

   87. Try a devil's threesome – one woman, two men. We suggest the Eiffel Tower threesome position for this.

   88. Try an FFM threesome – two women, one man. Related: 18 super-kinky threesome positions

   89. Have a moresome – sex involving more than three people

   90. Attend a swingers party. Learn: How to explore the swingers lifestyle

   91. Have sex while drunk

   92. Have sex while under a mood-altering substance – keep it legal!

   93. Go on a date in a skirt, wearing no underwear

   94. Go on a date without a bra – no real equivalent for men here

   95. Go on a date without a bra or underwear – again, no equivalent for men

   96. Go on a date wearing just one item of clothing besides your shoes – curious if any guys have pulled this off

   97. Give or receive a footjob

   98. Try hair pulling during sex. Find 40 more freaky things you can do to your partner.

   99. Use a whip, paddle, riding crop, flogger, or belt to spank or flog your partner – and don't forget to receive it too!

   100. Get and leave marks the day after a whipping session

   101. Give a rim job, also known as analingus

   102. Try a strap-on, also known as pegging

   103. Wear heels or boots and nothing else to bed – guys can go with cowboy boots

   104. Perform a striptease

   105. Have sex on the balcony of a tall building

   106. Have sex while porn plays in the background

   107. Have sex using a fitness or yoga ball – the Speed Bump position is a great place to start

   108. Visit a strip club for a lap dance – bring your partner along if you'd like

   109. Read erotica together, then act out your favorite scenes – remember, you're reading it for inspiration, not the prose!

   110. Give a pearl necklace – when your partner ejaculates onto your neck

   111. Get a facial

   112. Try "snow-capped mountains" – ejaculating onto your partner's backside

   113. Swallow your partner's cum

   114. Try love bites

   115. Have sex in an abandoned building

   116. Sleep with the same partner in at least 10 different states or countries

   117. Sleep with someone who speaks a foreign language

   118. Have sex with someone else while your partner watches

   119. Watch your partner have sex with someone else

   120. Have a quickie

   121. Let your partner suck your breasts as if nursing

   122. Have sex in total silence

   123. Get a handjob, blowjob, or fingering session at the movies

   124. Have sex in a nightclub, restaurant, bar, pub, or public restroom

   125. Have sex at a music festival or concert

   126. Have sex on a church altar

   127. Try silent disco sex – both wearing headphones, each listening to your own favorite music

   128. Sleep with an elected official – local council, state senate, even Congress counts!

   129. Explore consensual non-consent, sometimes called rape roleplay. Here's 43 more sexy role play ideas.

   130. Have sex in your parents' house

   131. Have sex in your parents' bed

   132. Use fruit, vegetables, or another object to penetrate yourself or your partner

   133. Try a fucking machine

   134. Attend a munch with your partner – a casual meetup for your local BDSM community

   135. Work through every position in the Kama Sutra

   136. Learn to female ejaculate or squirt – including teaching your partner how to help make it happen

   137. Share your fantasies with each other – then act them out!

   138. Try some roleplaying fantasies with your partner – a great stepping stone before diving into your own fantasies

   139. Wear a gag during sex

   140. Kiss in the rain

   141. Have sex in front of a roaring fire

   142. Roleplay choking during sex – this carries real risk, so proceed carefully

   143. Play with his balls, or rub her clit, mid-sex (doggystyle works especially well for this)

   144. Try sensory deprivation during sex – earplugs, a blindfold, mitts, or restraints

   145. Wear a collar (not a shirt collar! Think dog collar)

   146. Combine a leash and collar

   147. Have sex in total darkness

   148. Play maid or butler for your partner for a day, attending to their every need

   149. Keep a private blog documenting your escapades together (privacy and trust are essential here)

   150. Have sex in front of a mirror

   151. Use handcuffs during sex – on yourself, your partner, or binding you together

   152. Try rough sex

   153. Have sex without using your hands at all

   154. Plan a sex-focused weekend – a nice hotel, room service, and barely leaving the room the entire time

   155. Sleep with someone from another country

   156. Have sex while traveling abroad

   157. Surprise your partner with strawberries and champagne

   158. Have sex on something vibrating – a washing machine or car hood both work well, or try the Washing Machine sex position

   159. Have sex while other people are nearby in the room – they don't need to know, though!

   160. Have sex on a train

   161. Have sex timed to a metronome's rhythm – that swinging device musicians use, which ticks steadily back and forth

   162. Sleep with at least two different partners in a single day

   163. Have sex under the stars

   164. Have sex in broad daylight, under the sun

   165. Show up at your partner's place wearing only heels or boots and a coat – guys can substitute cowboy boots

   166. Be your partner's submissive for a night

   167. Reach orgasm together, at the same time

   168. Be your partner's dominant for a night

   169. Have sex at a drive-in movie

   170. Experience multiple orgasms in one session – a real challenge for most men!

   171. Slowly trail ice over each other's bodies (sensitive spots especially)

   172. Try queening with your partner

   173. Have extremely slow, sensual sex

   174. Have make-up sex

   175. Write erotica starring you and your partner – and make sure they actually read it!

   176. Have sex more than seven times in a single day

   177. Visit a sex club

   178. Answer the door naked when your partner arrives

   179. Attend a sex show

   180. Attend a sex convention

   181. Try fisting, whether giving or receiving

   182. Use a remote-controlled sex toy on each other out in public

   183. Spend over two hours on foreplay before having sex

   184. Wake your partner with a blowjob or cunnilingus

   185. Wake your partner up already mid-sex

   186. Sleep with someone of the same sex

   187. Try tit-fucking, or a camel wank

   188. Rake your nails down your partner's back during sex

   189. Have sex at a friend's house party

   190. Slap your partner across the face during sex – and make sure you're on the receiving end too

   191. Bite lips while kissing

   192. Bite your partner's neck, arms, hands, earlobes, genitals, and everywhere else – just remember some spots are far more sensitive than others

   193. Try orgasm control – deciding when your partner may orgasm, and vice versa

   194. Have sex in a sex sling

   195. Have sex in a treehouse – just make sure there are no kids nearby!

   196. Sleep with a member of the clergy

   197. Have sex on furniture built specifically for it

   198. Squeeze, massage, and fondle your partner's genitals – start gently and build from there

   199. Experience double penetration from your partner and a sex toy

   200. Experience double penetration from two men

   201. Try the airlock – double penetration combined with giving a blowjob simultaneously

   202. Grope your partner somewhere public

   203. Be groped somewhere public

   204. Post nude photos of yourself (and your partner) online – remember, once it's online, it's there permanently!

   205. Take a pole dancing or stripping class

   206. Have sex against a wall

   207. Have sex on the floor

   208. Have sex on a couch – the Sofa Spoon position works beautifully here

   209. Give a birthday blowjob or cunnilingus session

   210. Kiss your partner for hours straight without having sex

   211. Kiss, suck, squeeze, pinch, and blow on your partner's nipples

   212. Reach orgasm with your partner's help without them touching your genitals at all – tough for men unless prostate stimulation is involved

   213. Kiss the backs of your partner's elbows and knees

   214. Kiss your partner's entire back for more than 10 minutes using only your lips, no hands

   215. Rub and massage the perineum – the skin between the testicles or vagina and the anus

   216. Have sex in a room lit by hundreds of candles – just watch for fire hazards

   217. Play with a pair of sex dice

   218. Have sex on your lunch break while at work

   219. Try some fun sex games – here are some ideas to get started.

   220. Pin your partner to the bed and don't let up until you both get what you want – just make sure consent is clear the whole time!

   221. Wash each other in the shower – bonus points for wearing just a light white t-shirt that turns see-through when wet

   222. Wash your partner in the bath – most tubs are too small for two, so you'll likely need to stand outside it

   223. Receive oral sex while on a phone call

   224. Have sex in a hot tub or jacuzzi

   225. Have sex right after a workout

   226. Tell your partner exactly what you love about their body

   227. Freshen up with mouthwash before oral sex

   228. Eat foods believed to be aphrodisiacs – chocolate, oysters, and champagne are a solid starting point

   229. Undress each other

   230. Hold eye contact for 5 minutes straight without looking away – blinking's still allowed!

   231. Try ass pinching – squeeze right as he climaxes, and throw in random pinches throughout the day too

   232. Interlock your fingers with your partner's during sex

   233. Put a condom on your partner using only your mouth

   234. Burn incense while having sex

   235. Try a spitroast

   236. Spend an entire day naked together

   237. Dress up as furries

   238. Experiment with crossdressing

   239. Tell your partner, "Do whatever you want to me" – just agree on a safe word first!

   240. Challenge your partner to see who can hold out longest without sex (the mounting tension will drive you both wild with desire!)

   241. Have sex in a tunnel – a cave counts too!

   242. Use a sex swing. Tip: try these intense positions in your sex swing.

   243. And finally……lose your virginity

Let us know in the comments how many of these you've managed to check off this Sex Bucket List (50, 90, 201, more?). Got something to add to the list? Drop it in the comments below.

November 17, 2020