Trying The Sofa Spooning Sex Position
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The Sofa Spooning sex position is a light twist on the standard Spooning position. To try it with your guy, you'll want a full-length, comfy sofa. It's great for lazy Saturday mornings together with the TV on. We've got over 100 more relaxing and hardcore positions.
To get into the Sofa Spooning position, your man starts by lying on the sofa with his back against the backrest (14 couch sex positions). You lie down in front of him, facing the same direction. He then enters you from behind, thrusting slowly while wrapping his arms around you.
Her Role In The Sofa Spooning Position
The Sofa Spooning position is ideal when you just want to relax and let your man take the lead. There's little required of you beyond lying there, though you're welcome to press yourself back into him with each stroke if you like.
You're also perfectly positioned to slowly masturbate yourself while Sofa Spooning with your man. Just lower your hand and start rubbing your clitoris, vulva, or vagina. Your breasts are free too for a bit of nipple play.
Don't forget to sharpen your kissing skills as well, our advice here can help.
His Role In The Sofa Spooning Position
Your man's main job in Sofa Spooning is settling into a comfortable, steady rhythm as he thrusts. This isn't meant to be a 'hardcore' rough sex position, it's slow, sensual, and genuinely intimate. Remind him of that if needed.
He can deepen the intimacy by wrapping his arms around you and holding you close. He's also perfectly positioned to reach down and massage the outside of your vagina.
If the arm tucked beneath you starts going numb, he can raise it above his head in a sort of 'Superman' pose instead.
Tips For Making The Sofa Spooning Position Work
Sofa Spooning is genuinely easy to pull off, though it's nowhere near as popular as the standard Spooning position. Readers who've tried it with their partner shared some helpful takeaways:
- Most importantly, make sure your couch actually accommodates you both, long enough, deep enough, and without armrests getting in the way.
- Lay a towel or sheet beneath you near the crotch area to protect your couch from any fluids you'd rather not stain it. This matters even more if you're a squirter.
- Sofa Spooning also works great for anal sex.
Similar Positions
Pretzel
Works on a firmer couch. Your man kneels while you lie on your side with your upper body twisted toward him.
Corkscrew
Very close to the Pretzel, except both your knees stay together.
Side by Side
A blend of Spooning while kneeling.
Flatiron
Your man supports his weight with his arms in this position.
Screw
Twist your back from the position above to explore new angles.
Don't forget to try other spooning and on-your-side positions.
Sean's Take On The Sofa Spooning Sex Position
I'm a big fan of the Sofa Spooning sex position. It's perfect for slow, sensual sex with your partner, or for those times you want to keep the TV running while things heat up.
June 15, 2023
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