91 Dirty Things To Say To Turn Him On & Have Wild Sex

Below, you'll find 91 dirty phrases to say to your guy that can turn sex into something intensely satisfying for the both of you.

Want to skip straight to the dirty talk lines and ideas? Click here. This post is actually Chapter 3 of our Dirty Talking Guide. Back in Chapter 1, we covered why dirty talk carries so much power. It ramps up sexual tension, essential if things have gotten a little routine. It also amplifies the intensity of sex itself. And it keeps your man thinking about you even when you're apart.

We also went over some ground rules to help you get the most out of dirty talk, so you don't catch him off guard and so you can deliver your lines with real confidence. Need a refresher on those guidelines? Head back to Chapter 1.

Chapter 2 covered how the exact phrases you choose matter less than HOW YOU DELIVER THEM. Nail your tone, inflection, and body language, and you'll have the ability to flip your man into a horny teenager with barely any effort.

This chapter, Chapter 3, breaks down different dirty things to say depending on the situation you're in. As mentioned before, the dirty talk that works during a filthy night in the bedroom is nothing like what you'd whisper while out in public trying to stay discreet.

Now, let's dive into some sexy, dirty things to tell your man.

Filthy Things To Say In Bed

The bedroom is the first place most people think of for dirty talk. If you're chasing hotter, more intense, more passionate sex, try some of these lines on him.

A quick heads-up: if you go from zero to extremely filthy overnight after years of staying quiet, it might catch him off guard. It's smarter to ease in with milder phrases and work your way up to the really filthy stuff.

Here are some nasty lines to try:

1. I need your cock inside me right now.
2. Fuck me hard.
3. Deeper, deeper, DEEPER! – Say it like an order.
4. Right there, just like that.
5. Don't you dare stop.
6. I love being your fuck slut. – Try these 9 kinky sex ideas.
7. I think I'm falling for your dick.
8. Holy shit, I'm about to cum.
9. I want to taste myself on your cock.
10. Make me cum, baby.
11. I'm soaking wet for you.
12. I'm right on the edge.
13. Oh my fucking god!
14. Nobody's ever fucked me like this.
15. You're going to make me lose it completely.
16. I just want to be your sex slut.
17. Grab my hair and take me like an animal. – More rough sex ideas here.
18. I want your cum all over my face.
19. I want to feel you finish in my mouth. – These tips on swallowing his cum will help.
20. I'm going to jerk you off until there's nothing left.
21. Let's stay naked together the entire weekend!
22. Fuck me, fuck me!
23. Pound me harder!

Sensual Things To Say In Bed

Dirty talk isn't only about filthy, explicit lines. Softer, more sensual talk works just as well, and it's a great way to switch things up if you've mostly stuck to intense and raw so far.

1. I love you.
2. You make me feel incredible, baby.
3. I feel so small wrapped up in your arms.
4. That feels amazing.
5. I can't believe I found you.
6. Please, please, please, PLEEAAAASSSSEEEEE… – Say it like you're nearly begging.
7. Tonight is entirely about you.
8. Do you like that, baby? – Here are over 50 more dirty questions to ask him.
9. Mmmmmm, you taste incredible.
10. Yes!
11. I want you so badly.
12. I love your body – say this while running your hands over him.

Sexy Lines For A Party, Event, Or Public Place

You won't be having sex out in public, but it's still a prime opportunity to build up serious sexual tension with your man, perfect for once you're back home. Most of these work best whispered directly into his ear, though texting them works too if you'd rather.

1. I wish we were home right now, so I could do awful things to you.
2. Why do I always get so turned on with people around?
3. I just want to tear your clothes off right now.
4. If we weren't at your friend's place, I'd already be on my knees with you in my mouth. – These blow job tips from Chapter 2 of the Blow Job Guide should help!
5. I can't believe we chose shopping over staying home and fucking.
6. Going to the gym together might have been a mistake. Watching you sweat like that makes me want you badly.
7. Keep looking at me like that and we're going to need somewhere private, fast.
8. Did you know I'm not wearing panties? Read: 206 fun, flirty & revealing questions to ask your partner.
9. Just so you know, I'm dripping wet right now.
10. Walk ahead of me for a bit — I want to watch your ass.
11. Stop looking at me like that here; it's driving me crazy.
12. You look incredibly sexy in that shirt/those jeans/that top.
13. I love it when you grab me in public.
14. I can't wait to get you home.
15. I wore this skirt just for you.

Freaky Things To Whisper To Him In Private

Whether you're curled up on the couch, getting ready for bed, or walking alone together outdoors, try some of these lines to get your husband worked up.

1. I'm so glad it's just us — I've had filthy thoughts running through my head all day.
2. Do you have any idea how wet I am right now?
3. Would it be too much if I started sucking your dick this second?
4. I'm just going to rub your leg and see how fast you get hard. Then I'm going to do some freaky things to you.
5. Pick a number between one and ten. Guess right, and you get a blow job. – Discover how to give your man the ultimate blow job here.
6. Want to lie down for a while?
7. Can you help me with something upstairs? – Send this while he's downstairs and you're already in bed.
8. Now that we're finally alone, I need you inside me.

Dirty Text Messages To Send Him

Sending dirty, sexy messages while you're apart keeps him thinking about you and builds real anticipation. Send them however you like — Facebook, text, email, Snapchat. Check out our full chapter on sexting your man for a deeper dive. These messages will get you started.

1. I need you so badly right now.
2. Why aren't you here already? I'm so unbelievably horny.
3. I can't focus at work — all I keep thinking about is sucking your dick.
4. My panties are soaked through. Get home fast.
5. Last night was unforgettable. I can't stop replaying it.
6. What should I wear to bed tonight?
7. I can't stop imagining what I'm going to do to you later.
8. You crossed my mind all day today.
9. Tonight I'm giving you the wettest blowjob of your life.
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Dirty Things To Say Over The Phone

Being in a long-distance relationship doesn't mean the fun has to stop. Phone sex can fill the gap nicely, and these lines work great for it. Chapter 6 of the Dirty Talking Guide is dedicated entirely to phone sex and will show you exactly how to drive your man wild from a distance. Check it out here. Meanwhile, here are a few lines that work well over the phone.

1. I love touching myself while I talk to you, but what I really need is you here, fucking me. – Use these 10 intense masturbation techniques for full-body orgasms.
2. I'm actually blushing saying this, but I miss your dick so much.
3. I wish I could clone your dick just to have something of you with me.
4. Why can't we just quit our jobs, move in together, and fuck all day, every day?
5. I dreamed about you last night, and it was incredible, but then I woke up and you weren't there.
6. I keep thinking about ditching work or class and coming to see you tonight instead.

Dominant Dirty Talk

Talking dirty while dominating your man works incredibly well too, and it can build serious intensity when done right. Pair it with physical dominance, or use it purely to mentally dominate him and reinforce his submissive role — either works.

Learn: How to dominate your man.

1. Lie down and stay quiet.
2. Tonight is all about me.
3. Strip and get into bed.
4. On your knees, bitch.
5. Tonight, I'm the one taking you.
6. I want to hear you moan my name — say it, bitch.
7. Beg for it.
8. You're getting spanked until you're in tears (reasons people cry after orgasm and sex).

Find 162 dominant things to say to your sub and 103 submissive things to say to your dom here. New to BDSM? Start with this beginner's BDSM guide.

Submissive Dirty Talk

On the flip side, there's dirty talk for when you're in the submissive role. Depending on the dynamic, this can take a lot of different shapes — maybe you're playing with CNC kink, or acting out being his sex slave or secretary. Want to learn more about embracing submission with your man? Read this. Some examples:

1. Your wish is my command.
2. All I want is to make you happy.
3. I've been far too bold — I need to be punished.
4. Pleasing you is my only purpose.
5. Please fuck me, daddy.
6. Can I give you a blow job, master?
7. Please.
8. Thank you for fucking me.
9. What would you say if I offered to cook dinner in lingerie and heels? Or would you rather I wear something else? 107 filthy would-you-rather questions.

As you can see, there's no shortage of situations where dirty talk can crank up the tension and turn your man on. Honestly, it's one of my favorite sexting tips too.

The trick is knowing which dirty things to say and when. Obviously, shouting "I want to fuck your brains out" across a dinner party would be bizarre. But at that same dinner party, leaning across the table to softly whisper, "Just so you know, I'm not wearing panties," lands a whole lot better.

January 20, 2020