64 Wild Dirty Talk Examples To Get Him Addicted To You

Getting your man worked up with dirty talk is easier than you'd think, and it's genuinely fun once you get going. The 64 examples below will do exactly that — get him fully turned on and set the stage for some seriously intense sex. Jump straight to the 64 dirty talking examples by clicking here.

If you just landed on this page, you're actually looking at Chapter 2 of the Dirty Talking Guide. In Chapter 1 (you can read it here), I covered the three biggest reasons you should be talking dirty to your man tonight. Those three reasons are to…

1. Build sexual tension.
2. Make sex more intense and satisfying.
3. Keep him thinking about you.

You'll also find 73 more dirty talking phrases in Chapter 1, on top of the 64 examples here.

Now that you know WHY dirty talk benefits your relationship, before diving into the 64 examples further down this page, I want to walk you through how to actually deliver it — confidently, and in a way that drives your man crazy.

Talking dirty confidently and effectively comes down to four factors…

• The Context
• The Tone Of Your Voice
• The Speed Of Your Voice
• What You Do While Talking Dirty To Your Man

The Context When Talking Dirty

Context is, hands down, the most crucial factor in learning to talk dirty. By context, I mean WHERE YOU DO IT and WHAT THE MOOD IS.

Picture this: you're both curled up in bed, cuddling, staring into each other's eyes… and he says “I love you” for the very first time. That is absolutely not the moment for dirty talk. Imagine his face if you responded with, “I can't stop thinking about your cock.”

That scenario is tender, vulnerable, and meaningful for both of you — dirty talk would completely derail it. Pretty obvious once you see it laid out.

Here's a better fit: it's Saturday night, you're both goofing around on the couch at home. Mid-play, you flash him a mischievous grin and say, “If you don't stop messing around, I'm going to grab my whip and teach you a lesson.”

That's a playful, flirty setting (Read: The Flirting Guide), so dirty talk here just adds fuel to the fire.

One more example: you and your husband are on vacation, a few drinks in, and back at your hotel feeling extremely horny and completely uninhibited. This is prime time to push him onto the bed and take charge. Lines like, “keep fucking me like that” or “I want to feel you orgasm inside me” or “you're going to make me cum so hard” land perfectly here. Use these clitoral stimulation techniques to make those orgasms even more powerful.

The takeaway from all these scenarios: YOUR DIRTY TALK NEEDS TO MATCH THE SITUATION to really land.

The Tone Of Your Voice

Next up is nailing your tone. Most students are shocked to learn how much of communication is non-verbal — the actual words in dirty talk only carry so much weight. Tone (and a few other factors I'll cover shortly) does the rest.

Getting your tone right can amplify your dirty talk to the point where your voice alone practically hypnotizes him.

Picture saying, “I can't wait to get you home” in a high-pitched, giddy-schoolgirl-at-a-concert voice. Not only would that fall flat, it might genuinely creep him out.

Now picture the exact same line, “I can't wait to get you home,” delivered in a low, breathy whisper right in his ear. Don't be shocked if he's suddenly desperate to get you alone.

The same principle holds once you're in bed together. Screaming, “Fuck me harder” like you mean it will absolutely turn him on and get him thrusting harder. But say it flat and disinterested, like you've mentally checked out, and it kills the mood instantly.

The point is, plenty of women think the line itself is all that matters — but you now know your tone carries just as much weight.

The Speed Of Your Voice

Pacing is the other big non-verbal piece of dirty talk.

In bed, during hot, sweaty sex, your words will naturally come out faster. You'll find great examples of what to say during intense, filthy sex with your boyfriend here.

For slower, more romantic sex, talking slowly and lovingly feels far more natural. Check out some great dirty talk examples for that mood here.

If you're out in public and need to keep it subtle, slow down even more when whispering in his ear. Stretch it across ten seconds and you'll blow his mind — something like:

“I'm…so…dam…horny right now…I…wish…I…had…you…inside…me.”

Check out 15 freaky dirty things to whisper in your man's ear here.

Two rules to remember about pacing:

1. Speed up only during hot, filthy, intense sex. Otherwise, slow way down.
2. And when I say slow, I mean really slow.

What Are You Doing When You're Talking Dirty

This is where most women drop the ball. Whatever dirty talk line you use, tame or wild, your body language needs to match the words.

If you're sitting next to him on a flight and randomly whisper, “I'm so bummed that we're on a plane, I really want to feel your lips on my pussy right now,” with zero physical contact, it's going to fall flat.

Now picture saying the exact same line, “I'm so bummed that we're on a plane, I really want to feel your lips on my pussy right now,” while slowly trailing your fingers up his inner thigh. Then pull back, lock eyes with him, and smirk. That'll drive him crazy.

The bigger lesson here is that lines alone don't make you a dirty-talk master. To truly own it, you also need to:

• Read the context correctly.
• Nail your tone.
• Usually, slow your pace way down.
• Stay mindful of your body language while talking.

Now that you've got the fundamentals of dirty talk down, let's get into examples that will blow your man's mind.

1. I get so turned on when you pin my wrists down like that.

2. The sounds you make when you moan (how to moan) and cry out at the end are unbelievably hot.

3. Get me off with that tongue of yours.

4. It's your turn to please me tonight, so drop to your knees and get to work.

5. I could still feel your cum on my leg this morning, and it drove me wild all over again.

6. I've got a job for you tonight, boy.

7. Harder. Fuck me harder. – Get 7 intensely rough sex ideas here.

8. No one has ever fucked me the way you just did.

9. Where did you learn to make me cum like that? – Use these 10 masturbation tips to cum hard during sex.

10. I'm going to have you crying from pleasure by the time tonight's over.

11. I woke up soaking wet after dreaming about you last night.

12. I love it when you get rough with me.

13. I've been such a bad girl — I think I need a spanking. – Learn how to get your man to spank you here.

14. Strip and get on your hands and knees. Now.

15. This outfit is for your eyes only.

16. Keeping you hard is basically my life's mission. – More tips on make your man horny.

17. That bulge in your pants is doing things to me.

18. I love the weight of your body on top of mine.

19. I love wrapping my hand around your cock and feeling it swell. – Learn how to give your man an incredible hand job here.

20. Handcuff me and do whatever you want with me.

21. Does it turn you on knowing I think about you while I masturbate?

22. I want to watch you jerk off tonight.

23. I can't stop imagining you grabbing me and taking what you want.

24. I know I'm being forward, but I need you right now.

25. Anal or oral tonight — your call, choose wisely. – The in-depth Blow Job Guide will teach you everything you need to know about giving your man the best oral sex of his life.

26. Your eyes on me alone are enough to get me wet.

27. Take me right here, right now.

28. Tonight, I'm all yours to use however you like.

29. You bring out a side of me that's pure animal, and I love it.

30. Scream my name when you finish.

31. Don't hold anything back — give me all of it.

32. Your moans of pleasure turn me on more than you know.

33. Claim me as your bitch!

34. Punish me!

35. Every inch of your cock belongs to me.

36. Fuck my cunt!

37. Take my breasts in your mouth. – Get more nipple play ideas here.

38. Let me know the second you're about to finish.

39. Give my ass a slap.

40. Make me feel completely at your mercy.

41. This pussy is yours whenever you want it.

42. I'm about to lose myself completely in the pleasure.

43. Enough talking — clothes off, now. – If you want to further dominate your man, then check out this domination guide and these 162 dominant phrases you can say to your partner.

44. This isn't like me at all, but you bring out something wild in me.

45. Bite me hard enough to leave your mark.

46. I want your hands exploring every inch of me.

47. Bend me over and spank me — I've earned it tonight.

48. Pull my hair and use me like an animal.

49. Thinking back to our first time together still gets me insanely turned on.

50. I want your lips on every part of my body.

51. Is it strange that all I want tonight is to be used?

52. Being with you is addictive — like a drug I can't quit.

53. I want to feel every twitch of your cock inside me.

54. Make me yours completely.

55. Never stop fucking me.

56. Tie me up and take whatever you want from me. – More BDSM tips here.

57. Oh my god, you're about to make me cum.

58. I feel so tiny wrapped up in your arms.

59. I never get tired of having sex with you. – Also works great as a sext. Read: Advice for sexting.

60. I love the feel of your dick in my hands!

61. There are a few things you do that I really love — please don't ever stop. – Perfect for keeping him thinking about you.

62. I've got a little something planned for you later….and I think you're going to love it!

63. I wish this could just go on forever.

64. I want you to watch another man have me tonight. Get: Cuckolding tips.

65. Take me like the slut I am for you!

These lines will seriously spice up your sex life and relationship. Looking for more tailored examples? My advice is to check out Chapter 3 of the Dirty Talking Guide here, where you'll find what to say when you're…

• Out in public or at an event where you need to be discreet.
• In bed have filthy, nasty sex.
• In bed having sensual, loving sex.
• Messaging your man.
• Having phone sex.
• Acting submissive for your man.
• Being dominant over your man.

Click here to read Chapter 3 now.

January 20, 2020