5 Qualities That Make A Great Fuck Buddy

Ever caught yourself wishing you could track down a laid-back guy for some no-strings-attached sex? The kind you could ring up late at night for some mutually satisfying nookie…

…with zero worry about him catching feelings or any of the other weird baggage?

Well, your search ends here. This Love Curi guide to landing a great fuck buddy walks you through how to find one fast — no drama attached — all while having powerful orgasms.

All it takes is finding a guy who ticks these 5 boxes:

He Keeps It Discreet

The fastest way to sum up this quality is that you want a guy who knows how to:

Shut The Fuck Up

Once you've found someone you have great sex with, the last thing you need is him strutting around broadcasting your arrangement to his friends. Or, worse still, to yours.

So the goal is a guy who's discreet and not a blabbermouth.

Ask any guy point-blank and he'll swear he's not a big mouth, so you'll have to be a bit sneaky when testing whether your potential fuck buddy can genuinely keep quiet.

Notice whether he's fast to spill details about other girls he's slept with. Does he volunteer those stories without you even asking?

Is he a big bragger?

If your potential fuck buddy loves to boast and readily rattles off the other girls he's been with unprompted, chances are high he'll be just as eager to talk about you.

Do you honestly want a fuck buddy who'll spread word about the two of you around town, even if he is good in bed?

He Doesn't Catch Feelings Or 'Want Something More'

Alright, so say you've found a guy who's discreet and has figured out how to make his girl orgasm.

The next box to check is that he doesn't get attached.

When a fuck buddy attaches easily, those naughty, hot, steamy encounters with 'Mr. Fuck Buddy' start giving way to a guy who's after something beyond just great sex.

There's nothing remotely wrong with that. But it does kill the fuck buddy vibe and can set up some awkward conversations.

Telltale signs a guy is getting attached include:

• He gets jealous when you chat with another guy or spend time with your male friends.
• He's forever texting, calling, or emailing you. Fire back some of these 101 dirty text messages.
• He wants to hang out constantly. Learn how to make a man miss you.
• He turns insecure when you don't call or text back fast. This tends to happen once you know how to make a man cry with pleasure in bed.

Those are the clearest signals that he's growing attached and wants more than just the sex.

To be clear, you may genuinely welcome this if a relationship is what you're after. But if all you want is a no-strings fuck buddy, keep an eye out for these red flags.

Related: If you want to dig deeper, it helps to recognize the signs he is looking for a relationship and the signs that he just wants sex.

He Can Host

This one isn't a hard requirement, but it's genuinely convenient. A fuck buddy who can host means you're not always stuck using your own place or a hotel for sex.

It also keeps your roommates, if you have any, more in the dark about him.

He's Respectful

This counts for a lot.

Perhaps you've found someone to hook up with for some mutual sexual pleasure.

Fantastic!

Now, I'm not your father, but you do need to make sure he treats you with respect. Otherwise the whole arrangement is going to leave you feeling lousy.

Being a Bad Girl is about making choices that are both safe and fun. Guys who disrespect you simply aren't worth the hassle or the bad feelings.

He's Honest

Honesty goes hand in hand with respect. An honest guy will be upfront about whether or not he's already in a relationship.

He won't jerk you around or fake interest just to get sex — or anal sex — out of you.

As with the disrespectful ones, dishonest guys aren't worth the trouble.

You don't strictly need all 5 of these traits in a great fuck buddy. Still, keep them in mind if you'd rather sidestep any hassle once the two of you start hooking up.

So You've Found Him…Now What?

Once your fuck buddy is locked in, you'll probably want to experiment with some new sex techniques, fresh new sex positions, and pick up how to give a good blow job. Naturally, he should also master how to go down on you and eat your pussy and make you squirt. And if you're keen to try new things in bed with him, you've come to the right place.

February 8, 2022