114 Couples Quiz Questions To Test How Well You Know Each Other

Has conversation with your partner hit a lull, or are you looking for ways to understand them on a deeper level? You're in luck, because 114 couples quiz prompts are waiting below to get you talking again! Feel free to jump straight to the 114 questions here, but…

I'd suggest reading through this whole guide first. Here's why: a couples quiz can accomplish several things at once.

• It can reveal how sexually compatible you two are
• It's a solid way to learn more about your partner, spanning everything from their family background to sexual fantasies
• It can deepen intimacy with your partner
• It might confirm that you're already aligned on shared values, or…
• It could surface points of friction gently, so you're not blindsided by them down the road

Related: 206 deep, revealing & fun questions to ask your partner to get to know them better

Setting up a couples quiz doesn't take much effort. You could literally just alternate reading questions aloud from this list! But there are other approaches too…

Both answer the same question – Try guessing what your partner will say before revealing your own honest answer, if that sounds like fun.

Print out the questions? – If you're feeling ambitious, you could turn this into a written quiz that tests how well each of you actually knows the other, though that's entirely optional extra effort.

The most important thing – For a couples quiz like this to actually benefit your relationship, both of you need to answer honestly. Don't pick a question you're eager to hear the answer to and then dodge it when it's aimed back at you.

Curious about our take on the "Never Have I Ever" game too? We've got you covered there as well.

Passing on questions? – That said, if you're both on board, feel free to grant each other a pass on a question or two you're not ready to tackle yet. This can be especially useful early in a relationship or when the topic gets heavy. Stick to lighter material if that's what keeps things enjoyable for both of you.

These are conversation starters – Remember, the goal of these questions is simply to spark conversation, not to complete a checklist. Feel free to follow an interesting tangent and set aside the rest of the questions for another time. You don't have to get through the whole list in one sitting, or ever, really. Spreading it out keeps things fresh and fun.

Vary the questions – On that note, mixing up your questions tends to keep engagement higher, so keep that in mind while browsing the question list below! Alternate between prompts focused solely on your partner and ones about the relationship as a whole. You can even turn this into a group game for extra fun.

Keep it fun 🙂 – Lastly, and this is worth repeating, try not to read too deeply into every single answer during this quiz. What your partner says doesn't automatically reflect something negative about either of you or the relationship itself.

Some people just don't do great under pressure or when put on the spot. A question might catch them off guard, or they might blurt out something imprecise while rushing to answer. Maybe they've genuinely never thought that deeply about a certain topic before, let alone said it out loud.

Would you rather? – Framing things as either/or questions or would you rather prompts, or simply giving each other time to think, can help sidestep some of these issues (107 dirty would you rather questions). Also, be mindful of what you ask. Some of these prompts get pretty personal, and not everyone's ready to hear that much detail about their partner's past. Our guide to sexual communication offers advice for tackling difficult conversations.

Whatever the trigger, some discomfort or jealousy might bubble up while doing a couples quiz like this, so try to laugh it off when that happens. You're teammates here, not opponents, and this quiz isn't meant to create distance between you.

And now, here's the full list of couples quiz questions!

114 Relationship Questions

Feel free to tweak any question to better fit your situation, and skip the ones that just don't apply. By the way, we've also got 69 dirty questions if you're after something spicier!

1. Do you recharge by socializing or spending time alone?
2. What are your favorite things about our relationship?
3. What things do I regularly do that irritate you?
4. What do you like most about me?
5. What is your love language? (Then use that advice to find the perfect way to show your love)
6. Where do you see this relationship going?
7. What do you like and dislike the most about yourself?
8. Do you believe in marriage?
9. What little thing can a partner do to make you smile?
10. What always makes you laugh?
11. What's something that you look forward to every week?
12. When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up?
13. What's your truth-is-stranger-than-fiction story?
14. Would you be okay with one of us being a stay-at-home parent?
15. Do you think someone should take the other's name when getting married?
16. How would you handle holidays as a couple?
17. What's the longest relationship you've ever been in?
18. Where do you see us in 5 years? 10 years?
19. Do you have an ethos that guides all your relationships?
20. Would you rather go on vacation or staycation?
21. How would you deal with it if I had problems with one of your parents?
22. Do you believe someone should get a father's permission before getting married?
23. What type of relationship structure do you prefer?
24. What surprises you the most about me or our relationship?
25. Do you wish we had more in common?
26. What's the most important thing you've learned from your relationships?
27. Would you let a son play with dolls or a daughter play with trucks?
28. What did you learn about relationships from your mom? And from your dad?
29. What would you want to teach your (our) children about relationships?
30. What do you wish you had learned about relationships when you were younger?
31. What are you most proud of us for in this relationship?
32. What do you think makes or breaks a relationship?
33. How much me-time do you need and what do you like to do for it?
34. Do you prefer to be doted on or left alone when sick?
35. How does stress affect your sex drive? (Discover how to get in the mood)
36. What makes you feel grateful?
37. What do you think about PDAs (public displays of affection)?
38. What convenience is worth spending money on for you?
39. Are you more of a do-it-yourself or hire-it-out person?
40. How often do you like to check in on a relationship?
41. If you could gain one ability, what would it be?
42. Do you prefer to give or receive gifts? (15 sexy gift ideas)
43. What impact has your family had on the person you are?
44. What do you spend the most time thinking about?
45. How are you predictable?
46. What did your exes have in common?
47. Would you want to know your future if you could?
48. How would you describe your communication style?
49. How would your exes describe you? (121 women & men confess to the pros & cons of having sex with your ex)
50. What's holding you back from doing something that you want to do?
51. What is romantic to you? (12 romantic sex tips)
52. Is there anyone you wish you could be closer to?
53. Who is your cartoon crush?
54. Are you more of a giver or taker in relationships?
55. What about me is the most attractive to you?
56. What do you wish we did more of?
57. Is there anything you wish we did less?
58. What would your perfect day be like?
59. Where did you learn about relationships?
60. What do we have in common?
61. Is there anything you enjoy doing even though you're not good at it?
62. Pretend you have $10,000 that you must give away. Who/what would you give the money away to (you can split it up)?
63. How can I help you succeed?
64. If you could only eat at one restaurant for the rest of your life, which one would it be?
65. What do you do when you have trouble sleeping?
66. Is there anything you wish you knew more about?
67. Do you have any regrets about your life?
68. Who is the most interesting person you know?
69. What job would you do if you never had to work again and it was only for your enjoyment?
70. If you could change one thing about our relationship, what would it be?
71. Do you consider yourself to be more traditional or modern when it comes to relationships?
72. Do you like how we split household chores?
73. What relationship questions do you want to ask?
74. How close was your family when you were young? Now?
75. What do you find the most challenging to deal with?
76. What's your most precious memory?
77. Do you prefer to use the bathroom with the door closed? Are there any exceptions?
78. What do you do or who do you call when you need a pick-me-up?
79. What would your fake author name/celebrity pseudonym be?
80. What is your earliest childhood memory?
81. How easily do you cry?
82. What toy did you want as a child?
83. How many times have you been in love?
84. Do you have any secret abilities or talents?
85. Would you rather kiss me now or later? (22 hot kissing tips)
86. Would you rather critique movies or restaurants?
87. What do you put on the TV when you need background noise?
88. Are you a good or bad influence on those around you?
89. If you had $1,000 that you could only spend to treat yourself, how would you spend it?
90. Who usually instigates breakups, you or the other person?
91. What makes you smile every time you think about it?
92. How long do you date before introducing someone to your friends? Your family?
93. What counts as cheating to you? (The 23 reasons women cheat, according to 268 women)
94. What simple dinner do you make when you have little energy?
95. What do you consider your biggest accomplishment thus far?
96. Is there anything you want to do while still young/before you die?
97. Do you still talk to your childhood friends?
98. What helps you blow off steam?
99. Were you good in school?
100. How do you think you contribute to the world?
101. Would you change anything about your life if you only had one year to live?
102. How do you keep up your friendships?
103. Has your job helped you grow as a person?
104. How important is affection in your life?
105. What's your favorite joke?
106. What aspects of your parents'/carers' relationships do you want to replicate in your own relationships? What do you hope to avoid?
107. Do you consider yourself warm or outgoing?
108. Which parent were you closer to when young? Are you still close to them?
109. What was your role among your siblings?
110. Do you have an embarrassing memory you'd be willing to share?
111. What thing would you save during a fire (assume people and pets are safe)?
112. Do people go to you for advice?
113. What's your biggest challenge in relationships?
114. Who do you consider your relationship role models?

With this couples quiz, you've got a genuine opportunity to understand your partner on a deeper level, even if you already feel like you know them well! It can also quiet that nagging question of "Do I really know them?" or "Do they really know me?" Just remember not to overanalyze their responses. It's meant to be lighthearted, so keep the fun front and center.

October 22, 2024