10 Sexy Gift Ideas To Spoil Your Man

If your man's birthday is around the corner and you're hunting for a sexy gift to surprise him with, this roundup will hand you plenty of inspiration.

I've split the list into 2 groups, Free and Gifts That Cost $$$, so you don't have to spend a dime if you'd rather not. Whatever you choose, keep this in mind:

It's the thought that counts.

There's really no point dropping a fortune on a sexy gift for your man if you barely put any thought into it. Alright, let's get into the sexy gifts you can give your man. We'll kick off with the free ones before moving on to the gifts that'll cost you.

1. A Surprise Blow Job Or Hand JobWhen a special occasion rolls around, like your man landing a promotion, his birthday, or your anniversary, a fun and VERY SEXY way to surprise him is to give him a blow job or hand job the moment he least expects it.

So next time you catch your man parked in front of the TV or you're both simply lying in bed, skip the announcement entirely and just start. Don't warn him or drop hints, just dive in. His expression will be priceless.

If you've never done this before, a little nervousness is normal. Don't worry, 99% of guys will be over the moon about it. Also, check out this tutorial video where I walk through the exact blow job techniques that'll make his toes curl with pleasure. Click here to watch it now.

2. Watch Porn Together

A very sexy and kinky gift for your man is offering to watch some porn together. Every guy watches porn. EVERY GUY. So this isn't news to him. What is new is watching it beside the woman he loves.

While watching porn together can be incredibly hot, an even bigger perk is that it shows him you're adventurous and open to trying new things together.

So keep the real goal of this suggestion in mind…

It's to show him you're genuinely interested in exploring new things.

If you end up not enjoying it much, feel free to say so. Just let him know you wanted to find out if it was something you'd like, since trying new things with him matters to you.

3. Homemade Coupons

Homemade 'Sexy Coupons' make for a fun, hot gift to hand your man. It's a great way to showcase both your creativity and your adventurous side. Wondering what to put on them? Here are a few starter ideas, but don't be afraid to invent your own:

• Good for 1 blow job.
• Good for 1 hand job.
• Good for 1 massage.
• Good for 1 dinner cooked in lingerie and heels.
• Good for 1 night of anal sex.
• Good for 1 session of sex in public.

Don't stop at my suggestions either, weave in both your kinks and his for something more personal.

4. Wash Him

A deeply intimate sexy gift you can give your man is washing him. It doesn't sound as thrilling as an unexpected blowjob, but it's a wonderful way to connect with him and show how much you care.

This isn't really something you 'give' him so much as something you simply do for him.

So next time he's about to hop in the shower, undress and follow him in! Once inside, grab a bar of soap and start washing him. That's really all there is to it. There's no need for a big announcement or asking permission first, just take the initiative, it's sexy.

Bonus points if you follow it up with a handjob or blowjob.

5. Send Him Some Racy Pictures

A quick, easy (though occasionally risky) sexy gift is sending your man a racy photo of yourself. You don't need to be fully nude, just strike a sexy pose for the camera.

The only time I'd suggest doing this is when you both trust each other completely. If there's even a flicker of doubt about whether you can trust him, skip it.
So it's ultimately your call whether this gift works for you.

If you'd rather send him some dirty texts to build anticipation and turn him on instead, you'll get a lot out of this powerful dirty talking instructional video. It covers everything you need to know on the subject.

6. Strip For Him

Stripping for your man makes for an awesome sexy surprise. Rather than rehashing the how-to here, check out my comprehensive article on how to strip for your man here.

7. Massage

This final sexy gift can be free or paid, whichever you like. You could simply book him a session at a massage parlor. But it's a lot sexier and more intimate if you're the one giving the massage.

Simply lead him into your bedroom and have him lie face down. Then straddle him, sitting on his bum facing his back. Instead of memorizing 50 massage techniques, here are 2 easy ones to use:

1. With open palms, glide your hands slowly from his lower back all the way up his back and over his shoulders to the back of his neck. Move up and down and side to side.
2. Another approach is to curl your hands into fists and use your knuckles to press gently but firmly into the fleshy parts of his back, steering clear of any bony spots. Move up and down in a smooth motion, and don't press too hard!

P.S. Grab some good massage oil before giving him a massage.

Sexy Gifts That Cost $$$

8. Handcuffs

One of the funniest and most affordable sexy gifts for your man is a pair of handcuffs. They're surprisingly versatile, use them on him, let him use them on you, or cuff yourselves together. You could also just cuff his hands behind his back, or attach him to the bed.

9. Lingerie & Cooking In Lingerie

No sexy gift list for your man would be complete without lingerie. I'm not talking about lingerie for him to wear! Nope! I mean lingerie for you to wear and surprise him with.

You could stroll in on him while he's watching TV or on the computer and surprise him that way…or you could try something most guys find even hotter…

Ask if he'd like you to cook for him, then prepare the meal and serve it wearing nothing but lingerie. He'll never forget it!

10. Sex Toys

Sex toys are an obvious but still genuinely fun sexy gift for your man. There's a huge range of toys for both of you that can make your sex life more exciting, whether it's a vibrator, using a penis ring, a butt plug, a paddle, or any of the thousands of other options out there. Yes, thousands!

This list of sexy gifts for your man isn't exhaustive, but it should give you plenty of ideas for what to buy or make him. Have fun!

January 30, 2021