17 Blow Job Techniques For Mind-Blowing Orgasms

Anyone who's worked through the Love Curi Blow Job Guide from the start already knows there are plenty of important — but genuinely simple to master — pieces to an incredible blow job. That covers everything from a smooth opening (Chapter 1 will show you how)…to techniques that ramp up his pleasure (Chapter 2 and Chapter 3 cover a huge range of excellent oral sex techniques)…all the way to finishing him off so intensely his eyes roll back (Chapter 4 covers finishing him off in detail).

Super Slow & Sensual

Slowing everything down is a genuinely powerful way to amplify his pleasure by delaying his climb toward orgasm — and it'll produce a bigger load too [1]. Rather than your usual pace, dial your movements down until you're barely moving at all.

This kind of slowdown affects him in a strange way. It automatically feels more sensual and intense, giving him time to genuinely register your lips and tongue moving across every millimeter of his shaft. This technique shines especially bright if premature ejaculation is something he deals with.

"Super Slow" means kissing, licking, and sucking at a snail's pace. As a bonus, this pacing genuinely makes the whole act easier for you too!

Wet & Sloppy

Explaining exactly why extra-wet, sloppy oral works so well is genuinely tricky. The closest description: it just feels more "silky" and smooth. That might sound less precise than the rest of this guide, but it's honestly the truth. Try it on him yourself and see how much he appreciates it.

A few different approaches can boost wetness and "sloppiness" here…

Lube – A huge selection of lubes exist for oral use — just make sure whatever you pick is genuinely "edible," so you enjoy it as much as he does without any unpleasant aftertaste.

The Right Kind Of Condiment – Certain condiments taste great while also boosting wetness considerably — cream, maple syrup, honey, even chocolate syrup all work here.

Chewing Gum – Chewing a piece of gum right before going down on him naturally ramps up saliva production.

Deep Throating – Deep throating, and the gag reflex it triggers, naturally and quickly produces plenty of saliva. Not the most pleasant sensation for you necessarily, but a genuinely useful shortcut.

Enthusiasm

Enthusiasm comes up frequently in Chapter 1 of the Blow Job Guide, yet plenty of people still brush past it. It's one of the simplest techniques available, and also one of the most effective for boosting his pleasure — and it works both ways in your relationship too.

Remember that electric feeling when someone you're into seems desperate to get you into bed? Or how it feels when your partner seems compelled to go down on you with everything he's got? He feels exactly that same rush watching you eagerly and enthusiastically pull his pants down, massage his testicles, and dive into a blow job — it's a massive turn-on for him.

This principle really applies across your entire sex life…so if adding spice to the bedroom is the goal, swap a peck goodnight for an intense, passionate kiss instead. To underline just how essential enthusiasm is, check out these 4 separate threads[2][3][4][5] on Reddit, where the top-voted advice for pleasing a man boils down to simple enthusiasm. Genuinely underrated, yet clearly essential.

A few other ways to bring that enthusiasm to life…

• Instead of a simple hug while lying together in bed, grab his arms and pin him down.
• Instead of waiting for him to initiate a position change, grab him and move him where you want next. Check out the illustrated Sex Position Guide for inspiration!
• Instead of staying quiet during sex, whisper exactly what you want in his ear. The Dirty Talking Guide offers hundreds of lines to try!

The core message: oral sex feels dramatically more intense for him when you're enthusiastically licking, sucking, and thoroughly devouring his penis like a woman utterly committed to satisfying her man completely. Far more effective than going about it quietly, like it's just another chore.

Variation Is Your Friend

The importance of variation already came up in Chapter 2, but it's worth repeating — research confirms variety genuinely boosts sexual satisfaction[6]. It's an obvious tip, yet frequently overlooked, and it's exactly what keeps him eagerly anticipating your next blow job.

Men crave sexual variety even more than women do[7], so leaning on the same two techniques day after day will bore him fast. Keeping your sex life fresh and boredom-free is really the whole point of this Blow Job Guide — arming you with countless techniques to keep him fully satisfied today, next week, next month, and next year.

Make It A Special Occasion

He'd probably love the idea of three blow jobs a day…but too much of a good thing genuinely backfires.

Here's why…

Eat your absolute favorite meal three times daily, every day, and you'll love it initially. As days and weeks pass, though, boredom sets in, and you'll start craving something different. Eventually that "favorite meal" stops feeling special at all.

Oral sex works similarly…the idea of receiving it once or twice daily sounds fantastic upfront, and he'll genuinely enjoy it. But stick to that routine indefinitely, and the specialness fades fast.

Avoiding that means taking the Goldilocks approach — not too much, not too little.

For some couples, that lands at once or twice weekly; for others, nearly daily works fine. It really comes down to personal preference, sex drive, and desire.

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Location, Location, Location

Most couples naturally spend the bulk of their sex life in the bedroom, and oral sex tends to follow that same pattern. Rarely venturing beyond it, though, means missing out on a treasure trove of oral sex locations offering him a genuinely different experience.

Sure, obvious spots exist — during TV time, in the bathroom, in the car (just stay within the law!). But plenty of other memorable settings work too, like time alone in the wilderness. Picture a mountaintop, a deserted beach, or a cliff overlooking the sea. Again, legality first.

Pulling him into the kitchen under some pretense, then dropping to your knees for a surprise blow job, will leave him a little confused — but thoroughly delighted. The same goes for a house party — sneaking him somewhere private and putting a few techniques from this guide to work.

Start Small

One frequently overlooked oral sex principle: starting small. Plenty of readers finish a detailed guide like this one and immediately rush off to try every single technique at once.

That eagerness makes sense, but it's genuinely the wrong move.

Revealing everything upfront leaves him with nothing left to anticipate, and it sets sky-high expectations for what's coming next.

Instead, ease in with simple techniques to hook his interest early on. As things progress, steadily escalate toward more intense, satisfying moves. By the closing stretch, your most powerful techniques should be in full effect, building toward a genuinely explosive finish.

Think of it as a performance — a slow opening, a steady build, and a finale that leaves him coming in the most extreme way possible.

The techniques covered in Chapter 2 work perfectly as an opening act, before shifting into Chapters 3 and 7 to escalate his pleasure. Check out Chapter 4, 5, and 9 for the finishing techniques that'll leave him nearly overwhelmed.

Dominant Or Submissive

Anyone who's read our BDSM Guide already knows domination and submission can layer into almost any sexual act — oral included!

Let's start with dominant approaches to giving head…

Restrain Him – Tying him up and rendering him immobile before going down on him is an easy power move. Just stick to restraints that release quickly and won't cut off circulation — tying his arms to the bedposts or cuffing them behind his back are both popular options.

Push Him Down – An even simpler approach: push him onto the bed or couch and pin his stomach so he can't sit back up.

Dominant 69 – Another fun move: settle into the 69 position, him on his back, you on top. Sit firmly on his face so he knows exactly who's running the show, then give him all the oral attention he's earned by eating you out. Just make sure he can still breathe!

Whatever you do, keep your teeth away from his shaft during oral while asserting dominance — most guys really don't enjoy that particular sensation.

Now for some submissive techniques to try on him…

Get tied up – Fairly self-explanatory. Hands bound behind your back works best, though above your head is fine too.

He's in control – When he places his hands on your head, dictating depth and pace, he's firmly steering the experience. Worth chatting beforehand though, just so nothing accidentally hurts.

Having wrapped up Chapter 8 of the Blow Job Guide, checking out earlier chapters is worth considering next. Starting from Chapter 1 and working through in order is always the recommended path.

July 11, 2016