The Lap Dance Sex Position Guide

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The Lap Dance sex position has a lot in common with the Back Seat Driver position. It lets your man kick back and ‘enjoy the show’ much like he would at a strip club, while still giving him the option to get more hands-on. Check out more orgasmic sex positions, complete with illustrations!

To try it, your man sits down on a comfortable sofa or chair — this is actually a great way to cap off a lap dance for your man. He should sit fairly far back with his legs spread wide. You stay on your feet and back yourself up toward him, then grab his penis and guide it into your vagina. Once he’s inside you, you’ve got a few options:

1. Grind slowly on your man while he stays deep inside you — great for G-Spot stimulation.

2. Bounce up and down on him, with his arms helping to guide you.

3. Lean forward or backward on him depending on how intimate you want things to feel.

Her Role In The Lap Dance Position

You can probably tell from the name that the Lap Dance is centered mostly on your man’s pleasure, so keep that in mind while performing it. Part of selling the lap-dance feel is making it visually engaging for him — don’t hesitate to glance back over your shoulder, lock eyes with him, or kiss him while you’re on top.

Leaning forward while on top lets you rest your hands on your knees, which makes bouncing up and down much easier. Lean backward instead, and bouncing becomes tough unless he physically lifts you — grinding tends to work better in that position.

His Role In The Lap Dance Position

Your man doesn’t need to do much in the Lap Dance position. He can simply sit back and enjoy it, or get more involved by helping raise and lower you with his hands on your waist. If you lean back into him, he can wrap his arms around you and hold you close.

He’s also perfectly positioned to gently massage your clitoris or finger you if you’re having anal sex.

Tips To Keep In Mind For The Lap Dance Position

Now that you’ve got the basics down, here are a few pointers from some Love Curi students:

• Certain positions revolve entirely around your pleasure with minimal effort on your end. The Lap Dance flips that — it’s all about him, so keep that in mind while doing it.
• Feel free to lean forward as far as facing the floor if that feels better to you.
• Some women like to kick things off with a striptease. Tips for stripping.
• To set the mood, play music that’s great for lap dances in the background.

Related Positions

Mastery

Turn around and mount your man.

Back Seat Driver

Similar setup, but his legs stay on the outside.

Sitting

Lean forward onto a table while seated on your man’s lap.

Check out the rest of the positions where you’re on your man’s lap.

Sean’s Take On The Lap Dance Sex Position

Sex shouldn’t always revolve around just your man or just you — it’s a give and take (no pun intended). Sometimes he’ll be doing all the work for a smaller payoff, and sometimes the reverse is true. Keeping things balanced is what keeps you both satisfied.

March 17, 2021