Mastering The Side Saddle Sex Position

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The Side Saddle position is ideal for when you want to take the lead and let your man simply relax and enjoy the ride. It's a great pose to move into right after giving him a blowjob. And by the way, there are plenty more great sex positions worth exploring.

To get set up, your man lies on his back on the bed with his butt at the edge and his legs hanging off, feet on the floor. He can keep his legs together or spread them open, it's his choice. You'll stand over him with your back facing him. If his legs are closed, you can sit on top of him with your legs spread; if his legs are open, sit with your legs together instead.

Her Role In The Side Saddle Position

In the Side Saddle position, you'll use your legs to raise and lower yourself on his cock, which makes it a solid choice for a bit of Sexercise! But bouncing isn't your only option, and it'll wear you out fast if it's all you do. You can also sit down fully and grind on him, rocking backward and forward. Resting your hands on his legs helps with balance.

You might find you prefer straddling him with your legs open, or closed. Try both and see which feels better.

His Role In The Side Saddle Position

If you want, the Side Saddle can be entirely about your man, and he doesn't have to do anything but lie there. But if he wants to participate, he can thrust back into you, which is much easier when his feet are firmly planted on the floor.

He can also grip your waist to help lift you up and down. If you're grinding on him while he's inside you, he can help guide your movement forward and back.

Unfortunately, it's not a great pose for kissing or building intimacy. That said, he can still scratch your back or pull your hair if the two of you enjoy rough sex.

Tips For Making The Side Saddle Position Work

Quite a few Love Curi readers have tried the Side Saddle with their partner. Here's some of what they had to say:

• Try shifting your position on him, from leaning far back to leaning far forward so you're facing the floor.
• The Side Saddle is a great fit for anyone who enjoys anal sex.
• Feel free to use your fingers to masturbate or finger yourself if you're having anal sex.

Similar Positions

Back Seat Driver

Back Seat Driver – Your man sits up, and you tuck your legs in between his.

Reverse Cowgirl

Reserve Cowgirl – Face away from your man while riding him.

Don't forget about other sitting in his lap positions.

Sean's Take On The Side Saddle Sex Position

I like the Side Saddle position. It might not be the most thrilling pose out there, but it's great for mixing things up.

February 18, 2021