20 Sexy Phrases To Whisper To Your Boyfriend

It's fun to be flirty, playful and teasing with our men, it keeps them on their toes and keeps them interested. But sometimes our attempts at sounding sexy can go sideways, leaving us feeling awkward instead of smooth. So you keep sounding sexy and keep him wanting more, here are some fun, easy sexy things to say to your guy!

"I love your ____." Eyes, shoulders, chest, pretty much anything.

Complimenting sincerely is a great way to show your man some verbal affection, and delivering it with a raw edge in your voice during an intimate moment turns it from 'nice but boring' into genuinely sexy. To get really dirty, telling him "I love your cock" while going down on him will likely become his favorite compliment.

"You look so hot!"

Groaned while watching his expression during sex, while brushing his chin or lips. Also great in front of a mirror during sex!

"That outfit makes me want to jump you."

Said with real intent when he's dressed up in something you love, paired with an appreciative once-over, is a nice ego boost. If things get a little frisky, next time he wears it you could say something like, "How can I keep my hands off you? You know what that outfit does to me!" Chances are he'll start reaching for those clothes a lot more.

"I think you just rearranged my internal organs."

Playfully groaned after great sex will sound hot and make him feel like a king.

"I had a dream about you and woke up wet."

Works wonders over the phone or whispered close to his ear. Holding back the details keeps it teasing; sharing a few can hint at something you'd like to try. Word Of Warning: it loses its punch if overused.

"She is so hot/sexy…"

Not for the faint of heart, use very sparingly. Many guys love the idea of women being drawn to other women, so this can send his imagination racing.

A few cautions: "pretty/beautiful" doesn't land the same way; keep this about strangers, never about your friends or his; and it's probably a bad call if jealousy tends to be an issue for you.

"I'm wearing those ____ that you like." Insert panties, lingerie, etc.

Murmuring this to him at dinner or a party is a powerful sexy phrase to say to him that will make it nearly impossible for him to think of anything else.

"I'm touching myself."

Playfully whispered when he's not looking directly at you, like on the phone or while he's turned away in bed. I like sneaking my phone into the bathroom before a shower and texting this to my husband as a hint I'd like some company.

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Said breathlessly mid-makeout or during foreplay is a great way to turn him on fast.

"I'm so horny!"

Simple and reliable, saying this the first time you see him after a few days apart will get him excited and let him know exactly what you're after.

"I'm looking forward to the next time we ____." Insert something specific, like a certain sex position, freaky and nasty sex things, an outfit, a location, etc.

This is a super sexy way to be suggestive while praising him to turn him on.

"I can't wait for tonight!"

A sexy line with tons of uses, but drop it in a low, suggestive tone followed by a classic "Mmm," and he'll know exactly what's on your mind.

"I want to spoil you."

Said while holding eye contact and tracing a finger across his chest or thigh sends the message loud and clear, take it up a notch by biting your lip and glancing boldly at his crotch.

"I miss your ____." Insert 'tongue', 'fingers', or, if you're feeling bold, 'dick'.

Dropping this casually when he's not expecting it will make him feel truly wanted, knowing he's on your mind.

"When you look at me like that I want you so badly."

A sexy way to tell your man you're on the same wavelength; if he's giving you that look, follow it with a hot, hungry kiss!

"I love making you hard."

Said while kissing and touching him as he gets hard, he'll agree, since he also loves being the one making it happen.

"I want to lick whipped cream off your ____." Insert body, dick, chest, nipples, or wherever his erogenous zones are.

Great fun if you've already played with foods like whipped cream or chocolate, might feel a bit much if you haven't yet.

"I want to be your sex slave."

Works best delivered like a passing thought, casual and musing, rather than intense or overly serious.

"If I had it my way you would never get any sleep."

Said teasingly after a great round when you're both wiped out might spark round two, or send him off with pleasant dreams!

Last but definitely not least, nothing beats confidence and a willingness to explore:

"I want to try…" Followed by virtually anything, from a new sex position, to a new location, to a role-playing fantasy, to a bedroom game.

Let your imagination take over and watch your sex life ignite!

With a bit of practice, sexy talk with your guy becomes second nature. The more at ease you get, the more naturally it flows, and you'll notice that even simple, innocent phrases can come across as playful and sexy. You'll also find that when it comes to talking sexy, it's your delivery (body language, a smile, a lingering glance or touch) that matters most.

It's smart to avoid going overboard with sexy talk though, too much can actually numb your man to it and dull the reaction you're after. Used the right amount, sexy talk is exciting and hot, have fun with it and watch him light up when you flirt with him tonight!

If you want to dig deeper into talking dirty to your boyfriend to turn him on and spice up sex, check out these 91 dirty things to say during sex or try some of these 103 submissive phrases.

April 11, 2021