How To Do The Lunge Sex Position

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The Lunge sex position is named for the lunging stance you take on top of your man while performing it, so a bit of strength and flexibility helps if you want to keep it going for a while. Some people file the Lunge under novelty sex positions, while others treat it as a go-to move.

To get set up, have your man lie on his back on the bed with his legs open. You'll then move into a lunging stance above him. Start by standing upright on the bed, facing him, with your feet together just below his crotch, positioned inside his legs.

From there, plant your left foot beside his right arm on the bed. Then extend your right leg back behind you so you're in a full lunge, and lower yourself onto him. With him helping, raise and lower yourself while he's inside you. This is one of the more physically demanding positions, so consider it a form of sexercise.

Her Role In The Lunge Position

While doing the Lunge, you can push up and down using just your legs, but that tires out fast. It's usually better to brace with your hands on him and use your arms to control the movement while your hips handle the thrusting.

If your legs start to burn, swap sides so your other foot is now beside his opposite arm. Bringing your back leg forward shifts you into the Fast Fuck position, which is gentler on the legs.

You can also blindfold him for a touch of light bondage if that appeals to you.

His Role In The Lunge Position

Don't let your man think he can just lie there — the Lunge is tiring for both of you, and he should be pulling his weight by thrusting back. He can also grip your waist to help lift and lower you.

If you need a break, you can settle down fully onto him and let him take over the thrusting and grinding entirely.

Tips From Students Who've Tried It

I've talked to several Love Curi students who've experimented with the Lunge, and here's what stood out from their feedback:

• Relying mainly on your arms — with your man helping out — means your legs barely have to work to raise and lower you, which lets you keep going in the Lunge much longer before fatigue sets in.
• Your man can also do the Lunge with his legs together rather than spread open.

Similar Positions

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Get down close enough to kiss him in this position.

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The counterpart to regular Missionary style.

If you like being on top, you'll love these positions.

Sean's Take On The Lunge Position

As I mentioned earlier, plenty of people write off the Lunge as a novelty, dismissing it the way they might dismiss other entries on a sexual bucket list. My advice is to actually try it with your man before deciding whether it's worth keeping in the rotation.

April 11, 2021