The Back Seat Driver Sex Position

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The Back Seat Driver sex position is perfect for couples tired of sex that only happens with one or both partners flat on a bed. Keep things fresh by working through all the good sex positions from the Love Curi!

To try the Back Seat Driver, have your man sit on the edge of a chair, sofa, or even the bed, legs spread wide with his feet planted on the floor. Back up onto his lap and let him slide his penis inside you slowly as you bend your knees. Turning this into part of a striptease beforehand will make it extra hot for him.

Once he's comfortably inside you, use your legs to bounce up and down on him. Both of you face the same direction throughout the Back Seat Driver.

What You Do In The Back Seat Driver Position

In the Back Seat Driver, most of the effort falls on you, bouncing up and down on your man. If this position is new to you, or you're not used to the workout, your legs may tire fast. Leaning forward or backward shifts the angle of penetration.

If your legs need a break, plant your hands on his thighs and use your arms to help push yourself up on each stroke.

What Your Guy Does In The Back Seat Driver Position

Your man genuinely can do almost nothing in the Back Seat Driver if he chooses — he could stay perfectly still, though that's not exactly thrilling. For faster, more powerful penetration, he can grip your hips and pull you down with each stroke. Or lean forward yourself so he can wrap his arms over your back, gripping your shoulders and drawing you in with every thrust. If he's strong enough, he can slide his hands under your bum and help lift you up and down.

He can also wrap his hands around your waist and rub your clit. If you're having anal sex in the Back Seat Driver position, he can finger you at the same time as you bounce on his penis.

It's also a great setup for him to pull your hair and whisper dirty talk in your ear. Return the favor with these dirty talking tips.

Tips To Keep In Mind When Trying The Back Seat Driver Sex Position

Plenty of students have tried the Back Seat Driver with their partners and shared some genuinely useful insights:

• As mentioned, you'll tire quickly if you're not particularly fit or new to this position.
• For anyone who enjoys anal sex, this position is fantastic, since both you and your man can still easily reach your vagina and clit. More on the best clitoral stimulation techniques.
• You hold most of the control here, so if that's not your thing, this position might not be your favorite. On the flip side, it's ideal for a dominant woman.
• The Back Seat Driver is a refreshing change of pace for couples who default to lying down. It works pretty much anywhere in the house — bedroom, living room, kitchen, you name it.

Positions Along The Same Lines

Sitting

At the table, sit in his lap and lean forward for support.

Lazy Wheelbarrow

For the more flexible, try touching the floor in front of you in this one.

Lap Dance

Sit in his lap and put on a show.

Check out other lap-based positions here.

Sean's Take On The Back Seat Driver Position

Here's something worth trying with your man at some point — he'll love it:

If you want to make an entire sex session about him, the Back Seat Driver is ideal. Start by sitting him down in a chair and giving him a striptease. Once you're done, move into giving him a blowjob for a few minutes, then transition into the Back Seat Driver position. Want to push it further? Try tying him to the chair first!

April 17, 2021