Trying The Spread Legs Sex Position

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The Spread Legs sex position offers a nice change of pace from the Drill position or Missionary. It's also great because it's genuinely simple to do! By the way, you can browse our best sex positions in our sex positions guide.

Start by lying on your back with your legs open just as you would with your man on top. He then straddles you the same way he would for regular Missionary sex. But instead of wrapping your legs around him, keep them open and pointed skyward in a "V" shape.

You might assume you need to hold a perfect "V" the whole time. You don't — doing so would tire your legs out fast. Feel free to bend them whenever they start feeling sore.

Her Role In The Spread Legs Position

The Spread Legs position puts your man in a clearly dominant role while you take on a more submissive one. Heavy activity isn't required from you here... but it's always a nice bonus for him when you contribute!

A great feature of this pose is that you're facing each other, so don't skip out on eye contact. You can also wrap your hands around his neck and pull him in for a kiss. Many guys love it when you run your hands slowly up and down his back while he thrusts. If you'd like, you can also rub your clit, helping yourself reach orgasm.

His Role In The Spread Legs Position

For your man, the Spread Legs position is refreshingly simple. He's doing fine just thrusting in and out while on his knees. To make it more enjoyable for you, though, he should alternate between thrusting and grinding against you. Grinding up and down while inside you reduces vaginal stimulation somewhat but delivers a lot more pressure and stimulation to your clitoral area.

More Tips For The Spread Legs Position

Plenty of Love Curi students have tried the Spread Legs position, whether intentionally or without even realizing it. Here's some of their advice:

• It's great for anyone who likes their man firmly in control or "running the show" during sex.
• Anal sex is possible in this pose too.
• Depending on your entry angle, you can achieve very deep penetration in the Spread Legs position.

Similar Positions

Anvil

Your legs sit further back and closer together than in Spread Legs.

Viennese Oyster

Keep your legs spread and bend them back as far toward your ears as you can.

Right Angle

Your legs stay in a "V" shape but point straight toward your man's head.

Deep impact

Rest your ankles on your man's shoulders while he lifts your hips.

Sea Shell

Pull your ankles toward your head, or even behind it if you're very flexible — it'll leave you feeling very exposed.

There are still more Missionary variations and on-your-back positions to explore.

Sean's Thoughts On The Spread Legs Sex Position

I like the Spread Legs position because it's simple to perform, and also because it's adaptable — I can move around freely during it to land on an angle that works well for both of us. I'd strongly recommend giving it a try.

March 8, 2021