25 Steamy Songs To Make Love To For Better Sex

When you're setting up a romantic night in, there's plenty you can do to build the right atmosphere for something truly memorable. Light a few softly scented candles, dim the lights, maybe burn some incense.

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The soft lighting and inviting scent are a solid start, but the music is what really sets the tone for the night. Plan ahead and build your own mix of the best songs to make love to, then let them play in the background as you sweep your partner off their feet. Think of it as a soundtrack of the best lovemaking songs to "enhance the romance."

Candles and incense add to the mood, but the right playlist for sex is what turns the evening into something unforgettable.

You and your partner might not share identical taste in music, but don't stress about it. Pick songs you both genuinely enjoy, or make building the mix together part of the fun. Some of the best songs to make love to don't have any lyrics at all, just acoustic textures, ambient tones, or pure instrumentals.

If you're going for something soft and low-key, harp music might bring out your affectionate side. Want something more playful and upbeat instead? Latin music brings the right energy. Whatever genre you land on, try playing it through dinner to start easing you both into the mood. You'll find more great tips on improving your love life here.

There's another reason to have this soundtrack ready, especially if either of you feels self-conscious about the sounds you make during sex, and by the way, everyone makes those sounds, nothing to worry about!

Having the right music playing can ease your mind and help you both stay relaxed and present, so you can savor each other fully in the most romantic setting you can create. That's another good reason to build this playlist together. For more tips on making love to your man, read this article.

The last thing you want is a song neither of you likes killing the mood. The best song to make love to is really whatever lets you both relax and enjoy the moment, not necessarily anything on this list… although these picks are pretty solid, if we do say so ourselves. So here they are, 20 great songs to make love to.

1. Kanasando (Rebirth Mix)

Kanasando is the Okinawan word for "Love." This track has a soft beat with an Asian-inspired feel, sung in Japanese/Okinawan dialect. This exotic piece definitely earns a spot among the best songs to make love to.

2. Chair by Ganga

Built around light guitar with an interesting synthesized layer mixed with violin and subtle vocals, this one falls into the "world music" genre and suits most musical tastes.

3. The Alkemyst by Dos Hombres

This track carries a seductive beat that'll get your bodies moving in ways you didn't plan for. The Latin influence comes through in the guitar work. Lyrics are sparse, mostly whispers in a female voice. At minimum, it'll make you want to dance seductively, but hopefully your evening takes a turn and this becomes a favorite song to have sex to.

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4. Cold Winter by Quicksound

This track has a seductive undercurrent paired with soft female vocals. The vocals stay minimal, keeping focus on the beat and background flute. Exotic yet playful in equal measure. If this song doesn't put you in the mood to get naked and have sex, nothing will. Midway through, the beat drops out entirely, leaving you breathless with anticipation, and when it returns, your energy will feel that much more intense.

5. Straight to Number One (Suncatcher's Remix) by Touch and Go

This is, hands down, the BEST song to have sex to. The seductive beat backs a female vocalist walking your partner step by step through ways to please you. She counts down from ten, leading "straight to number one," the ultimate act of sexual pleasure. Kissing on the lips, running fingers through your hair, and touching are just a few steps along the way. You're welcome.

6. Essarai by Cantoma

A mix of seductive beats and lyrics split between English and Cantonese. The upbeat, Latin-flavored background with guitar and drums makes this a great song to have sex to.

7. Whatever Lola Wants by Sarah Vaughn

There's a clear French influence running through this one. The French, of course, being some of the most romantic people on earth, know exactly how to craft the best songs to make love to. The female vocal sings "I always get what I aim for, and your heart and soul is what I came for." "You're no exception to the rule, I'm irresistible you fool, give in!"

8. Bumba (Stereo Sax Mix) by Perfect Sense

An upbeat piece layered with saxophone and a lively drum beat. The female vocals stay subtle while the overall vibe blends world beat with African drumming. The saxophone really steals the show here.

9. The Way You Dream by 1 Giant Leap

Soft and slow, built on guitar with very light percussion. It opens with a female vocal in beautiful Arabic, then Michael Stipe (of R.E.M.) joins in with "I love the way you dream, one for me, one for you, one for me. Even if there's only one thing I want for you, I love the way you dream." Beautiful, and easily one of the best lovemaking songs ever recorded.

10. Bushes by 1 Giant Leap

This one opens very slowly, gradually building into an exotic lyric and beat combination. The language is an Indian dialect with a trance/mantra feel, building further with a male vocal, also in an Indian dialect, layered over distinctly African drum beats.

The male vocalist calls out to the spirits, turning the song into an offering. The trance eventually breaks into a full tribal mantra as the lyrics shift into an African sound. Regular pauses throughout give you a chance to catch your breath before building anticipation again. "Bushes" makes a great song to have sex to.

11. Erotica by Karma Zoo

A laid-back instrumental featuring an electric lead guitar that's sexy in its own right. No lyrics at all, just seductive, relaxing music, making this another great song to have sex to.

12. Lounge Time (Love Making Music) by Summer of Cream

This instrumental pairs a soft but energetic back beat with guitar, organ, and horns. Timeless and deeply romantic. The trumpet gives it an old-school feel that, mixed with the guitar solos, makes it a track anyone could get romantic to.

13. Musica Sensual by Love Ibiza

Longer than most others on this list, with a clear soul influence and a killer bassline, this genuinely ranks among the best songs to make love to. No lyrics here either, just a musical journey through chill, relaxation, and romance. Pair it with a bottle of wine for the full effect.

14. Sexy Lady by Playa del Mar

The deep bass guitar and steady rhythmic percussion stand out immediately. An instrumental piece with wide appeal, perfect background music for getting your passion going with your honey.

15. Erotic Moments by Erotic Pussycat

If the title alone doesn't sell you, the music will. This track practically oozes sexual energy straight from your speakers. Another instrumental that needs no lyrics to make its point clear. The sensual beats, guitar, and percussion land exactly where they should to communicate what's really on your mind. A genuine standout among songs to make love to.

16. Sexual Healing by Sueno de Ibiza

Purely instrumental, blending rhythmic percussion with a softly synthesized melody. The guitar carries a subtle Spanish feel. The beat stays consistent throughout, and musically it's just plain lovely. This lovemaking song has broad, universal appeal.

17. Abysmal Circumstance by Kama Sutra Beach Club

A somewhat funny name for such a sexually charged track, there's nothing abysmal about it. The bluesy vibe might explain the title, but the beat and melody are genuinely enchanting.

18. Ibiza by The Boat Party

An upbeat track with strong percussion and saxophone. This instrumental also includes some Carlos Santana-style guitar work, so if sexy guitar solos are your thing, this belongs on your mix list of great lovemaking songs.

19. Chill Lounge Bar by Buddha Spirit

Opens slowly with just soft guitar before a jazzy beat and percussion join in, together making a perfect song to have sex to. Chill Lounge Bar also works beautifully afterward, as you lie together enjoying the afterglow.

20. Erotic Moments by Joe Pacino

Starts with the sound of a bubbling stream before leading into a lovely guitar melody. Percussion stays light throughout, keeping focus on the shifting guitar phrases. Erotic Moments carries a distinctly positive, romantic vibe and easily ranks among the best lovemaking songs.

Lovemaking Songs You Might Not Expect

There's also a whole range of 'unexpected' songs worth trying. Here are five:

1. One by Metallica
2. Nothing Compares to You by Sinead O'Connor
3. Always on My Mind by Willie Nelson
4. Here, There and Everywhere by the Beatles
5. You Are So Beautiful by Joe Cocker

What about you? Any songs or playlists you'd like to see added here?

Premade Internet Playlists

For ready-made options, Spotify playlists are a great resource, and since it's internet-based, you can stream it straight from your phone to your stereo, or route it through a Smart TV.

Pandora is another internet-based option offering a great variety of music for any occasion or taste. Just start a station based on one of your favorite romantic artists, and Pandora builds the playlist for you. TIP: consider a Pandora One subscription, since it's 100% commercial-free. Nothing kills a romantic mood like a McDonald's ad.

Pandora also has Pandora Radio, featuring mostly instrumental melodies that are soulful, relaxing, and full of great songs to make love to.

Sirius XM also runs a channel for love songs, packed with soft favorites from familiar artists you'll fall for all over again. No, you don't have to make love in the car to enjoy Sirius XM, it's internet-based too. But hey, you can if that's your thing… [wink]. Speaking of making love in the car, here's a full guide on that very subject.

Once your playlist's ready, burn it to a CD for your sweetheart, or just send them the link.

They'll be able to replay it whenever they want and relive the memory of the night you spent together. Keep a copy for yourself too. Who knows, this mix might become one of your favorites, and every time you hear it, together or apart, you'll find yourself right back in that memory.

Isn't that exactly what music's for? A soundtrack for our lives? So build that playlist today. You won't regret it.

January 17, 2021