Trying The Lazy Wheelbarrow Sex Position

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There’s nothing lazy about the Lazy Wheelbarrow sex position! Pulling it off actually takes real effort, making it one of the more exotic sex positions featured on Love Curi.

To try the Lazy Wheelbarrow with your man, he starts seated on a sofa or armless chair with his legs open. You then sit down on him with your legs together, similar to the Lap Dance or Back Seat Driver positions. From there, lean forward as far as you can and plant your hands on the ground in front of you, letting your stomach rest against your thighs.

Her Role In The Lazy Wheelbarrow Position

Since you’ll be in a fairly awkward pose during the Lazy Wheelbarrow, there isn’t much you can actively do beyond staying as comfortable as possible and using your arms to hold yourself up.

Plenty of what you and your man will be doing in the Lazy Wheelbarrow position may feel unfamiliar, so be sure to speak up if anything he’s doing hurts or feels off. Talking openly about sex isn’t always easy, so our guide to sexual communication can help.

His Role In The Lazy Wheelbarrow Position

As you settle into the Lazy Wheelbarrow position, your man’s first priority is making sure you’re not too uncomfortable and that he’s properly supporting your weight.

Because he’s seated, actual thrusting becomes difficult — instead, the two of you will be grinding together. He should gently guide you back and forth over him by holding your waist.

Tips To Keep In Mind For The Lazy Wheelbarrow Position

The Lazy Wheelbarrow is a fairly unconventional, ‘out there’ position — nothing like the Missionary position that basically everyone already knows. Still, a handful of Love Curi students have tried it and shared some interesting feedback:

• Being exotic, unusual, or physically demanding doesn’t automatically make the Lazy Wheelbarrow better than other options. Plenty of positions are more satisfying, enjoyable, and easier to pull off.
• If heavy thrusting is what you love during sex, the Lazy Wheelbarrow probably isn’t for you — it’s genuinely tough for your man to thrust much at all in this pose. That said, it can be a good fit for avoiding cervical pain. More on turning painful sex into pleasurable sex.
• The Lazy Wheelbarrow ranks among the less intimate positions covered on Love Curi. Looking for something more connected? Check out these intimate sex tips.
• Try squeezing and rubbing your thighs together in this position to syntribate and increase your ability to orgasm.

Related Positions

Wheel Barrow

A fully standing version of this position, which makes it noticeably harder.

Stairway to Heaven

Turn around to lean against a chair or staircase and you’ll land in this pose.

Frog Leap

Closer to Doggy Style, but with you squatting instead.

Try more of the exotic sex positions suggested by the Love Curi.

Sean’s Take On The Lazy Wheelbarrow Sex Position

As you might guess, I’m not really sold on the Lazy Wheelbarrow sex position — the payoff just doesn’t seem to match the effort involved. Still, it’s worth trying at least once before you decide whether it’s for you.

June 15, 2023