How To Kiss A Guy In A Way He'll Feel All Over

If kissing a guy still feels like uncharted territory, relax — Love Curi is here to help you build the confidence and skill to land a sizzling, unforgettable kiss every time. But before we dive into the fun stuff, there's a little groundwork to cover first…

Prepping For The Kiss

Chances are these habits are already baked into your routine, since they're good for your overall health anyway. Just in case, here's a fast refresher on keeping your mouth and lips fresh and kissable.

Brush Regularly!

Try to brush at least twice a day, and ideally after every meal — this matters even more before giving your man a blow job! There's no getting around it: regular brushing keeps plaque in check and helps prevent gum disease. And a bright, healthy smile is simply more appealing to your guy than one dulled by stains.

Floss And Rinse Too

Brushing on its own won't cut it. Flossing digs out plaque and trapped food your toothbrush misses. Follow it with a mouthwash rinse to seal in that fresh feeling. Mouthwash also happens to be one of my top blow job techniques for pleasing your man.

Pamper Your Lips

Fresh breath and clean teeth go a long way, but don't neglect your lips. Chapped, dry, or rough lips need some care! At the very least, keep chapstick handy — or go further with the wide range of lip balms, treatments, and gels made to leave your lips softer, fuller, and more inviting.

Alright, that's the essential-but-less-thrilling prep out of the way. Time for the good part!

Taking The Leap

The hardest part of learning how to kiss is usually simply getting the ball rolling. Maybe he's shy, unsure of himself, or has genuinely never kissed anyone before. Our take on this closely mirrors what we'd say about initiating sex with a man.

Find a quiet, private moment first. Get physically close to him. While you talk, let your eyes linger on his lips — make sure he notices. Occasionally lick or gently bite your own lips. This subtle sign of sexual attraction makes your intentions crystal clear.

Slowly close the distance until you're leaning into his space. Pause for a beat, then move in unhurriedly for the kiss. He'll almost always kiss you right back.

It takes genuine courage to make that move. But it's worth every bit of nerve.

The Basics Of A Great Kiss

As you move in, part your lips just slightly and angle your head so your noses don't collide. Once your mouths connect, begin a slow massaging motion — gently pressing his lips between yours. He'll pick up the rhythm and mirror you. Keep that soft pace going for a while, then switch the tilt of your head for variety.

Once you're both warmed up, bring in your tongue and French kiss him. Part your lips a bit further so your tongue can meet his. This sets the stage for great foreplay that can lead straight into passionate, intimate sex.

There's no single "right" formula for French kissing. Just avoid the infamous "washing machine" move — wildly spinning your tongue around inside his mouth.

Guys tend to love a gentle nibble — softly biting or tugging his lower lip, or catching it briefly between your lip and teeth.

A good rhythm blends tongue and lips together, weaving in the occasional soft nibble. But his mouth is really just where the journey begins…

Cheeks, Ears, And Neck

Lips get most of the credit, but kisses along the cheeks, ears, and neck feel every bit as pleasurable for both of you. Cheek kisses are effortless — just pull back from his mouth and plant a few gentle kisses there.

From there, it's a natural drift up toward his ear. His earlobe is especially responsive — a light suck goes a long way. Work your tongue in for extra effect, which doubles as another way to tease him. A soft nibble also works nicely here.

After his earlobe, his neck is the logical next stop. Open your mouth against his skin and close it slowly in a gentle suck. Just watch out for leaving a hickey unless that's the plan — maybe you're feeling like getting a bit rougher with him and want to mark him on purpose. If that's the case, add a light bite along with the sucking and kissing.

From here, you're in perfect position to head south and start giving him head, or explore these other techniques for making your man cum hard.

Want to feel more dominant while kissing him? Cup his chin gently in your hand — it lets you steer his head exactly where you want and control precisely where your kisses land.

Another way to grow your repertoire is to simply echo what he does that you enjoy. If he nibbles your lip, nibble his right back. If he does something particularly hot with his tongue, return the favor in kind.

February 15, 2022