How To Become The One Woman He Truly Craves
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Maybe you've found him.
He might be attractive, charming, and hilarious. But is he just as into you?
Watching a relationship slowly fade, feeling your man drift further away by the day, is somehow worse than a clean, sudden breakup (even when breakup sex happens to be incredible).
Nothing wounds your confidence quite like a man who used to want you badly but no longer feels that same pull.
Still, you're not stuck feeling helpless.
A handful of simple moves can help you become the one woman he truly desires…
Looks Do Count
I won't sugarcoat this. I'm not going to reassure you that looks don't matter, or lean on the "it's what's inside that counts" line. The truth is that attraction runs on both inner and outer beauty combined.
You can't lean on just one.
Both matter.
So once you land a great guy, keep that in mind.
I get that this isn't what everyone wants to hear.
Sorry, but that's how we operate at The Love Curi. Honesty first, even when it stings a little upfront — it pays off down the road.
So if you land yourself a great guy, keep up whatever habits you had before meeting him.
Kept hitting the gym? Stay with it.
Cared about building a stylish wardrobe? Don't stop.
Ate well? Keep it up.
You might be thinking, "This sounds a little superficial, Sean!" Maybe it does, but speaking as a guy who's talked to plenty of other guys about this exact topic, here's the honest truth.
Looks genuinely count.
Good news: your appearance is mostly within your control, and staying attractive is easier than you'd think. Your wardrobe, your fitness, your hair color, even your nails — all yours to shape.
Remain A Challenge
Ever wonder why sports captivate men so much? Or why they dream about captaining a Super Bowl-winning team or standing on an Olympic podium?
Simple…
It's the challenge.
Same reason they can't be bothered switching phone plans to save five bucks a month — no challenge involved there at all.
You've probably noticed men don't get too worked up over women who are effortless to date or sleep with. No real challenge there either.
But the women they have to chase, the ones they have to earn, the ones that make them work — those are the women men actually crave.
So how do you become the only woman your man wants?
Simple…
Stay a challenge.
- Keep him guessing.
- Make him put in real effort for your attention.
- Maintain a life and friendships outside the relationship, so he knows you love him without depending on him for your entire social world.
- Stop caving to his every request.
Warning: Staying a challenge absolutely matters if you're serious about keeping his desire alive.
But if you're constantly unreachable, only ever doing what suits you, or treating him unfairly, you've swung too far.
Extremes hurt relationships. Find the sweet spot — challenging, but not impossibly so.
Don't Forget To Flirt
Ever spotted one of those couples sitting in stony silence across a restaurant table? You know the type — barely speaking, barely even looking like they enjoy each other's company.
What went wrong?
How did things get so flat?
Nine times out of ten, they simply forgot to flirt, to keep the connection light and playful.
Don't let your relationship slide there.
Skip the flirting and fun, and your man's desire will steadily fade.
Luckily, I've put together an in-depth video inside the Love Curi focused entirely on flirting and talking dirty to keep him hooked, attracted, and buzzing with sexual tension. You can watch it here.
Become A Dynamo In Bed
'Dynamo,' huh?
A little cheesy, I know.
But it holds up.
Becoming a true dynamo in bed is essential if you want to stay the one woman your man craves.
That's exactly why The Love Curi exists — to teach you everything about becoming a dynamo, goddess, queen (call it whatever you like) between the sheets.
I've built out sections covering everything from how to talk dirty to your man and how to give a great blow job, to a library of over 100 sex positions plus a whole collection of other sex tips.
There's so much packed into the Love Curi that diving in all at once might feel overwhelming. My advice: pick one or two techniques that catch your interest and give those a real try first.
Need something you can put to use tonight? Check out this instructional video covering my most powerful, effective blow job techniques. Click here to watch it now.
January 3, 2021
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