Bad Boys Bible: How To Pleasure & Fully Satisfy A Woman

The Bad Boys Bible is the guide readers have been begging me to put together. First, let me get this out of the way…

Yes, the name is a little cheesy.

But…

The sex tips for men laid out here work insanely well.

You're about to learn exactly how to make your woman scream and shake with intense pleasure, and become the one man capable of fulfilling her deepest fantasies.

In this introduction, I'll cover everything you need going in before walking through the exact, step-by-step techniques to please your girl sexually.

Becoming the best lover she's ever had is surprisingly achievable IF you can set your ego aside and follow the "3 Steps" outlined below.

Here they are:

Step 1 – Learn How To Turn Her On By Removing The Brakes To Her Sex Drive – Step 1 walks through clearing away the obstacles acting as Brakes on her sex drive and arousal. Once those Brakes are gone, you'll be amazed how easily she gets turned on. Learn how to remove the Brakes to her getting turned on by reading Step 1.

Step 2 – Learn How To Make Her Crazy Horny By Amplifying The Accelerators To Her Sex Drive – Step 2 focuses on genuinely arousing her through the right kind of foreplay, so she's the one begging you for sex before you even get started pleasing her. Important: Effective foreplay for women looks nothing like the foreplay that gets men going. Learn how to amplify the Accelerators to her sex drive and make her crazy horny by reading Step 2.

Step 3 – 73 Techniques That Will Make Her Scream & Cry With Pleasure – Step 3 is broken into four separate guides — the essential skills needed to please a woman fully. You'll learn how to eat her pussy, how to make her squirt, how to finger your girl for maximum pleasure, and all my secret techniques for making her orgasm harder than she ever has before.

Before diving in and becoming a master at pleasing her in bed, a few quick warnings can derail this otherwise straightforward process if ignored. Skip these at your own risk — they lead to lousy results and a woman left unsatisfied.

Here we go…

Warning 1 – Don't Skip Step 1 & Step 2

Skip Step 1 or Step 2, and you will absolutely mess this up.

Trust me.

Every guy wants to jump straight to the physical techniques in Step 3, but they're not willing to put in the (genuinely easy) groundwork in Step 1 and Step 2 that ultimately leaves your wife or girlfriend shaking from how hard she came.

Warning 2 – Guidelines, Not Rigid Rules

Everything you're about to learn is a guideline meant to be tailored to your relationship and your girl specifically.

Some things will work wonderfully; others won't…

You need to figure out what actually clicks with each woman you're with, and discard whatever doesn't.

Approach sex with an open mind, stay able to talk with your partner about what's working and what isn't, and adapt this advice to your relationship — do that, and you'll have women asking for more, purely because of how well you please her in bed.

But if neither of you ever discusses your sex life, and you treat this guide as gospel to be followed rigidly without question, you'll end up with a woman who avoids sex with you altogether.

Want an easier way to talk about sex? Check out our guide to communicating about sex effectively.

The real key to pleasuring a woman is staying flexible and adapting these tips to the individual woman in front of you.

Warning 3 – Generalizations

Throughout this guide, I've made generalizations to keep things readable, memorable, and easy to put into practice.

Human sexuality, of course, is a deeply complex topic backed by tens of thousands of research papers, so these generalizations won't cover every possibility for every person in every situation.

I've relied on them to keep the guide as short and usable as possible.

That said, taken to the extreme and applied to every woman on earth, these generalizations obviously fall apart. I'll flag them where I can, and I'm trusting you to understand they apply to a large share of women, not all of them. Some won't land with your girl specifically, so pay close attention to her particular needs and desires.

Warning 4 – Safety

If you're not practicing safer sex, you're being reckless.

You're putting both your health and your partner's at risk, along with the possibility of pregnancy. There are ways to reduce that risk, though you can never eliminate it entirely (hence the phrase "safer" sex rather than "safe" sex).

Before pleasing a woman, take the necessary safety precautions first. One of the simplest ways to practice safer sex is using a condom, which protects against both pregnancy and several STIs [1, 2, 3, 4, 5].

Now, maybe condoms aren't your favorite. Plenty of guys feel sex with one doesn't compare to sex without. But sex with a condom is still miles better than no sex at all. There's a trick to making it feel more natural, too: use lube. A dab can dramatically improve the experience while wearing a condom, and it may help reduce the odds of the condom breaking [6].

Learn all about lube here.

When shopping for condoms and lube, you'll come across options containing spermicide. Nonoxynol-9 (N-9), a common spermicide ingredient [7], has actually been shown to raise the risk of STI transmission due to the tissue damage it causes [8, 9, 10], so skipping spermicide-based lube like nonoxynol-9 is generally the smarter call.

For a condom to actually do its job, it needs to be used correctly [11, 12]. That means picking the right fit, the right material, and checking it hasn't expired — then putting it on properly and swapping it out as directed on the package.

A few more helpful reads from the Love Curi on condoms:

• How To Use A Condom the Right Way
• When Is Sex Without A Condom OK?

Condoms won't protect against everything, though. Infections like HPV spread through skin-to-skin contact [13, 14, 15], meaning it's essentially impossible to eliminate all risk during penetrative sex. Oral sex carries transmission risk too, including gonorrhea, syphilis, HIV, chlamydia, herpes, and HPV [16]. One way to lower that risk during oral is wearing a condom, or using a dental dam — a small square of latex or plastic [17] — against her body while going down on her. A condom cut open also works as an improvised dental dam [18].

Now let's get into how to give your girl screaming orgasms…

Here's the complete roadmap for the "Bad Boys Bible":

Introduction – Overview of the Bad Boys Bible – you're on this page right now
Step 1 – Learn How To Turn Her On By Removing The Brakes To Her Sex Drive
Step 2 – Learn How To Make Her Crazy Horny By Amplifying The Accelerators To Her Sex Drive
Step 3 – How To Eat Pussy – The first installment of Step 3, covering the physical techniques for satisfying your girl.
Step 3 – How to Make A Girl Squirt – The second installment of Step 3.
Step 3 – How To Finger A Girl – The third installment covering essential skills for pleasing a woman.
Step 3 – How To Make A Girl Orgasm – The final installment of Step 3.
Bonus Step – How To Last Longer In Bed – First bonus guide, breaking down the science behind lasting longer.
Bonus Step – How To Get Hard & Stay Hard – Second bonus guide, covering the science of stronger, longer-lasting erections.
Bonus Step – How To Get A Bigger Penis – Final bonus guide, walking through the science and research on penis size.

Now you're ready for Step 1 – Turning Her On By Removing the Brakes To Her Sex Drive.

October 10, 2020