Teaspooning Sex Position: The Ultimate Intimacy Move

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Teaspooning ranks among the most intimate sex positions you'll find on Love Curi. True to its name, it's a variation on classic Spooning.

To try Teaspooning with your partner, he needs to kneel on the bed or floor with his knees opened fairly wide. You then kneel too, facing the same direction as him, positioned in front of his body.

Keep your knees together so he can move in close behind you and enter you. Once he does, he should wrap his arms around you, whether around your waist, cupping your breasts, or reaching under your arms to hold your shoulders. Transitioning into Teaspooning from regular Doggy Style is simple.

Her Role In The Teaspooning Position

While in the Teaspooning position, you can let your man take the lead entirely, doing all the thrusting and grinding himself. Or, if you prefer, bounce on your knees and contribute plenty of the movement yourself.

You can also reach back with your arms around his waist or back, or wrap them around his neck while he kisses you. To maximize intimacy, lean fully back into him so as much of your bodies touch as possible. Turn your head and whisper something dirty in his ear if you're feeling bold. Check out the Dirty Talking Guide for tips on talking dirty to your man, complete with examples.

His Role In The Teaspooning Position

In the Teaspooning position, your man just needs to thrust gently, in and out. Keep in mind gentleness is the point here, not intensity. Teaspooning is built around intimacy, and hard, forceful thrusting will break that mood.

To deepen the intimacy, he should kiss your neck, shoulders, and cheeks throughout. Being pressed so close also puts him in a great spot to run his fingers through your hair and along your scalp, which feels amazing. He can also drop a hand toward your groin to gently rub your clit while penetrating you, or if you're having anal sex, he can finger you at the same time.

Notes On Trying The Teaspooning Position

Plenty of people love Teaspooning, and I've heard great feedback from readers who've tried it:

• Teaspooning is deeply intimate, so using it the very first time you sleep with someone might come across as a little intense. It tends to work better once you've had sex together a few times already.
• It's easy to shift from Teaspooning into something like Doggy Style or the Bassett Hound.

Comparable Positions

Acrobat

Simply lean backward from Teaspooning to transition into the Acrobat.

Bouncing Spoon

A variation of Teaspooning where your man leans against a wall.

Related: 12 tips and 13 positions for having sex against a wall.

Bent Spoon

A variation with your man on his back and you lying on top of him, also on your back.

Books Ends

Still kneeling, but this time facing each other.

You can explore more positions where you are on your knees.

Sean's Thoughts On Teaspooning

I genuinely recommend Teaspooning to everyone. I'd argue it beats regular spooning with your partner. It also works beautifully for having sex in front of a mirror, letting you both watch everything unfold.

June 15, 2023