The Asian Cowgirl Sex Position

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The Asian Cowgirl sex position closely resembles the standard Cowgirl position — you on top, your man flat on his back. Still, there are some meaningful differences worth knowing before you try it. By the way, you'll find over 100 more sex positions in our sex positions guide.

In regular Cowgirl, your knees rest on the bed on either side of your man. In Asian Cowgirl, you're squatting instead, so most of your body weight rests on your feet. You can offload some of that weight onto your hands, placing them on his chest or on the bed on either side of him. If you're not particularly strong or flexible, this position tends to wear you out fast.

What You Do In The Asian Cowgirl Position

In the Asian Cowgirl, you'll be squatting above your man. I find it works best to start in regular Cowgirl and transition from there. To make the shift, lean forward and plant your hands on the bed for balance, then rock back onto your toes and lift your body just slightly off him into the squat.

From there, rest your hands on his chest and use a combination of arm and leg strength to rise and lower yourself. If your arms tire from doing most of the work, shift the load to your legs, and vice versa. You can also change the entry angle by leaning forward or back — though leaning too far back makes balance harder and tires your legs even faster.

It's a fantastic pose for taking charge and teasing your man. More tips for taking control and teasing your man.

What Your Guy Does In The Asian Cowgirl Position

Your man has considerably less to do here. If he wanted, he could simply lie back and do nothing at all — though that's hardly the recipe for great sex.

Ideally, he helps you bounce. That means sliding his hands under your legs or bum to help lift you up and down, taking some of the workload off you. Alternatively, he can grip your waist on either side to help you keep your balance.

Top Tip

If fatigue sets in quickly, one great way to last longer is to stay steady in a single position while your man does the thrusting instead. If you're into the burn, though, check our more sexercise tips here.

Tips To Keep In Mind When Trying The Asian Cowgirl Sex Position

Based on feedback from students who've tried or regularly use Asian Cowgirl with their partners, here's what I've picked up:

• It tires you out fast. I know, I've already said it — but talking to students, most last under 2 minutes before their legs give out. Try slower sex, which gives you room to pause and switch positions.
• The best way to stretch it out is the Top Tip above — hold steady while your man handles the thrusting.
• Real flexibility and strength go a long way here.
• Try tucking a firm cushion or two under your bum so your legs aren't bearing all the weight. Just have your man keep his legs together if you do this, or the cushions won't do much good.
• Give this a shot as an anal sex position, too.

Positions Along The Same Lines

Corner Cowgirl

Corner Cowgirl – Try riding him from the corner of your bed.

Sofa Surprise

Sofa Surprise – For when the bedroom feels too far away!

Mastery

Mastery – Similar idea, but on a chair.

Fast Fuck

Fast Fuck – Squat over him right on the bed.

Bow & Arrow

Bow & Arrow – Depending on your body types, Bow & Arrow can be a blast or just awkward. The receiving partner stays on top with legs tucked inside the penetrating partner's legs.

Plenty of women love the sense of power that comes with being on top, and men are just as into these girl-on-top positions!

Sean's Take On The Asian Cowgirl Position

I'll admit, Asian Cowgirl isn't among my personal favorites. That said, one thing I've picked up is that when your man can thrust quickly, staying steady in one spot can bring a woman a whole lot of pleasure.

February 18, 2021