Attempting The Tug Of Love Sex Position

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The Tug Of Love sex position is probably the last thing you'd think up yourself. It's quite unlike anything else you'll find in the Love Curi — see for yourself by browsing our list of sex positions.

To get into Tug Of Love, your man first lies on the bed on his back, legs open. You then sit on top of him, letting him enter you with your legs on either side, facing forward. Next, lean backward until you're lying flat on the bed (use your arms behind you to lower yourself down). Your head should end up near his feet. Rest your legs on his chest or on either side of him, whichever feels better.

With you both now lying down, your man should grab your hands or arms to pull you toward him. He might also rub your feet — perfect if a foot fetish is your thing.

Her Role In The Tug Of Love Position

The first time you try Tug Of Love, it may feel a bit strange, and it can take some getting used to. That's completely normal.

Once you're comfortable, focus on grinding against your man — moving your hips up-and-down and side-to-side while he's inside you. This is trickier while on your back, but still easier than thrusting onto him. You're also perfectly positioned to masturbate yourself during Tug Of Love if your man isn't holding your arms.

His Role In The Tug Of Love Position

Your man will likely find Tug Of Love uncomfortable at first too, especially since his penis bends backward slightly.

He'll be holding your hands or arms throughout. He can pull you tightly against him and grind using his hips, or vary how firmly he holds on. He can also thrust up and down in this pose. He needs to be careful not to hurt you — if your arms start feeling sore, he can switch to holding your legs instead.

Alternatively, he could rub your clit or bring in a vibrator.

Notes On Trying The Tug Of Love Position

Tug Of Love is a fairly unusual sex position. Even so, a good number of Love Curi students have tried it with their partners. Here's some of their feedback:

• Some found it uncomfortable and not worth repeating. Making it pain-free can be tricky.
• Some women loved it as a way to shake up their routine, even without it feeling amazing.
• A small number found it uncomfortable when their man gripped their arms.

Similar Positions

Octopus

Adjusting your legs shifts you into another tricky pose.

Scissors

Another position where you both lean away from each other.

Exposed Eagle

Your man leans toward you while you stay leaning back.

Bridge

Another acrobatic option worth attempting.

Learn about more sex positions where you're on your back.

Sean's Thoughts On The Tug Of Love Sex Position

Tug Of Love isn't really my favorite. Even though I'm not a big fan, it's still worth trying a handful of times to keep the bedroom interesting.

March 17, 2021