The High Chair Sex Position: A Full Breakdown

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The High Chair is a fun rear-entry position that lets you sit back and relax while your man handles most of the effort. All you need to pull it off is a bar stool or tall stool. Browse more options in our illustrated guide to 101 sex positions.

To get set up, perch on the bar stool with your butt hanging past the edge — you're really sitting on the underside of your thighs rather than your rear. Your man enters from behind. From there, lean forward away from him or back into him to dial in the right angle. If he's not tall enough to reach comfortably, have him stand on something sturdy.

Skip putting anything underneath the stool — keep it planted on a firm, solid surface to avoid any mishaps.

What The Girl Does In The High Chair Position

There's not much required of you in this position. Mostly you just sit there and let him do the heavy lifting. Lean forward until your stomach nearly meets your thighs, or lean back into him for a closer, more intimate feel.

If you're not leaning too far forward, you've also got the freedom to touch yourself while he's inside you.

What The Guy Does In The High Chair Position

His job here is refreshingly simple: thrust in and out. If you're leaning back against him, he can wrap his arms around you and even work your breasts with his hands.

He should also experiment with the angle of penetration. Try coming in from just below you for shallower penetration, then gradually adjust higher until you land on whatever feels best together.

Things To Consider When Performing The High Chair Position

Even though it's not a hard position to execute, most couples haven't actually gotten around to trying it. Here's some useful feedback and insight gathered from those who have:

• The High Chair is a strong choice for anal fans. Prep tips for comfortable anal sex.
• It's easiest with a stool that has no backrest. If yours does have one, face it and straddle it with a leg on either side so your man has clear access from behind.
• Keep in mind you're sitting on your thighs, not your rear, so your butt hangs off the stool's edge for easy access.
• Worried about mess? Toss a towel over the seat before getting started.

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Swaps the stool for a staircase.

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Sean's Thoughts On The High Chair Sex Position

The High Chair is a position I genuinely enjoy, and on top of that, it's remarkably easy to pull off. Definitely worth adding to your rotation.

March 12, 2021